Hiya, I'm new to POF and it looks fun! I haven't posted a picture but will send some to you via email if we chat and hit it off. My pictures are easy on the eyes, so let me get that out of the way for you!
I'm not going to write about how I'm looking for Mr. Perfectly Wonderful because we all have a past and we all have a little baggage that might make us seem less than perfect. However, I am seeking that one of a kind chemistry where we can barely brush past one another without having a spine tingling feeling of excitement. I am not living in fantasy land. I've had this once before so I know it exists. I'm not just talking about sexual chemistry but rather someone who looks at me like I'm the whole package and gets utterly excited around me all the time and vice versa. An intellectual, emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. I'm not looking to jump into anything serious and like to take it slow and get to know one another- however If the chemistry is there, I'm not opposed to 'going for it'. I guess you can say I'm a risk taker. Why not? Life is short. As far as the future, I do try to live in the moment while keeping a solid foundation beneath me, so I like to look at 5-10 or more year plans in terms of finances and who and what and where I want to be. I tend not to make concrete plans where this is concerned because you just never know where life will take you. I may see myself living here for life but God may want me to live in Canada! I like to travel to an extent, let's just say I like when I'm there however the travel part where you sit in a car or plane for hours?.. not so much! Unless, I'm in great company. That makes a world of difference! I like to be spontaneous, go out somewhere on the fly without any plans, concerts are always fun but have not been in awhile, am done with the bar scene, don't drink, always love movies, whether in theater or snuggled up with my man on the couch, I live a pretty low key and healthy lifestyle. I like to have fun, which means no matter what I do I make sure I'm enjoying myself. A day is not complete without laughter. I can be serious when the time calls for it but thankfully, not many times call for this. I'm a laid back, down to earth, successful chica who is looking for a cool guy to get to know. I'm not into power dating so my goal is to find one really awesome guy and focus on one at a time as opposed to going on a new date every night. Music? Too much to list. From Classical to rock to alternative to totally obscure tunes that I've never heard of before.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First date should be something very formal. We should act uptight and not be ourselves. Wear Black tie, suit up you stud for your formal lady in her full length gown. This way, after we attend the opera and hang out in my back yard, it will make playing twister very interesting. Not to mention backflips on the trampoline! Doing this without harming our formal wear... I love a challenge!
Ok skip the whole first part and throw your most casual jeans and a T on then meet me in my back yard on the trampoline. With each jump, we can yell out one fact about ourselves. Save twister in case there is a 2nd date. Spin the bottle in the tree house if there's a 3rd date!