Aristocat: Are You in HERE? <img src=smiles/icon_011.gif border=0>
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Grand terrace, California
58 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Capricorn
Aristocat anything.
Some college
Customer service

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I am young for my age, Life has taught me to keep learning! I am often told that I'm a very beautiful, funny, loving, giving and genuine person, and I have a lot to offer. I am a published amatuer photographer. I am really Down to earth, and almost never wear any make-up, do not like High heels or lipstick, I'm an uncommon woman who can still be feminine! I give all that I need in return, unconditional love... I love animals, have 2 dogs, and 2 cats. I care about recycling, environmental and animal welfare issues. My Son lives with me, and I have my Daughter on many weekends, both are adults. I was also a guardian of a boy, Now 21 who calls me Mom... so I am blessed! I have a wonderful relationship with my 3 kids, and with GOD. I am Christian, not fanatical, though! I have medical conditions causing me to be overweight. I am ME, who I am is the person inside and that's beautiful, but I am realistic. Even though I do not enjoy being big, and I know I'm not as healthy as I should be, I have PCOS, and I may not be able to change that fact, I'm not giving up, either... if overweight REALLY bothers you, please move on. Because it would block your ability to really get to know me. I enjoy Progressive metal music, and the "neo-Classical prog.(Dream Theater, Queensryche, Royal Hunt, Fates Warning, redemption, Symphony X) I also like much of the classic rock, 80's rock, and Tangerine Dream, Jazz, even a little bit of country! Almost all, but not gangsta' or the nasty lyrics of rap stuff. I am a Conservative Republican, but not real far right, and do not agree with at least 95% of abortions. I am non-violent. I do not eat any beef or pork. I am looking for a good man who shares the same core values and interests...but let's have some differences, too! I guess he would need to be accepting of some of my "Ism's" because I am not the average woman at all.
I like hair on a man's head, but not a lot everywhere else, if he has some, no biggie.
He's loyal, honest, down to earth, and very faithful to commitments. Have a silly, "punny" and really fun sense of Humor! You do not have to like everything I like, however, accept the differences respectfully... no baggage which might hinder the growth of a serious, healthy relationship. Please be YOUNG! You know there are people I've met who are younger than I in age, but they are OLD! He will be intelligent, (But, not necessarily a rocket scientist, ok?!) humourous, not a person who has violent tendencies, someone who is level headed, and can be the type of partner who works things out as a team. We may have differences, that does not mean anyone is wrong. He must like Hard rock and concerts, and not mind an occasional friendly debate! There's so much to learn together, to grow and develop our own wonderful melding of lifestyles, hobbies, peculiarities, convictions, and all the things that make a REAL LIFE TOGETHER, be open. I am very self-sufficient, and am not looking for anyone to "take care" of me, I am ok. I am just missing something important, someone to share life with, someone to love, someone to come home to, a partner, someone to call my soul-mate. If you look for me, aristocat, I am at animail with the dot and a net, instead of the common places. My heart is lonely for that right man in my life. Will you please introduce yourself to me?

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Of course, we need to have time to really talk and get to know each other better, so a quiet atmosphere is preferred, moving on to other activities as we see fit. I imagine something casual, and going "DUTCH" is really nice, so nobody feels uncomfortable. There needs to be some preliminary emails and then phone calls to get a real idea of the potential between 2 people, and then I feel both of us should decide together what to do, where to go, from there!
I like the romantic feeling of Olive Garden and The Rainforest Cafe is fun, but loud, so we should decide together.

Mail Settings
To send a message to Aristocat you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age Between:39 and 52.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke