TropixDreamer: Looking For A Guy With A Heart Of Gold
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Somewhere in the country, North Carolina
53 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Lutheran
Caucasian, Aquarius
TropixDreamer anything.
Associates Degree
I Might Tell Ya Later

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I'm a fun-loving, easy-going country gal with a heart of gold, who loves water (Swimming, water skiing, sunbathing, fishing (And YES, I bait my own hooks), boating, etc. (Guess that's why I'm an Aquarius). I absolutely love the outdoors and would rather be outside than inside. I enjoy NASCAR, (Of course I have to pull for Jeff Gordon; I've been a fan of his since his Busch years), Country Music (My absolute favorites in the whole wide world: Kenny Chesney & Keith Urban), most other types of music, The Carolina Panthers football team, the beach, the mountains, beautiful sunsets, raising tropical birds & plants, collecting sea shells, and of course, taking photos of beautiful landscapes & sceneries. I enjoy bowling (but haven't been in a while), camping, gardening & landscaping (all the time), and I would love to find someone to learn to ballroom dance with & someone to show me how to ride horses. And get this ... I actually drive a truck. You know, now that I think about it, there's a lot that I would like to do.

Since I am a total romantic & sweetheart who is very affectionate, I do love to just snuggle & cuddle with that special someone by a warm fire, watching a good movie; or taking long walks in a beautiful landscaped setting; or a soft candle-lit dinner with soft, slow music playing; or slow dancing in the moonlight with soft, slow, and gentle kisses.

I love trips to the beach & mountains, especially with that special someone in my life. I've never been to the Caribbean, but someday soon would love to go see that beautiful part of the world.

For a night on the town, I love almost all kinds of food: Mexican, Italian, Japanese, American, etc. and most any movie except horror movies.

The things that I enjoy most in life are the simple and true things in life, and I try to live by good Christian morals & values. I love to laugh, smile, have fun, kid around & enjoy life. I consider myself to be a smart person with a good head on my shoulders & sense of direction, a positive thinker who tries to make the best out of all things and situations, and a real go-getter that is always trying to improve myself and become a better individual. I'm the type of tender-hearted person that does not play games and is tired of the bar scenes (but I do like to go see a good concert every once in a while); I do not like players, liars, or cheaters. In recent years, I've come to the conclusion that my true soul mate in life isn't the stud winking at me from across the bar. So, I'm trying this out to see if it works; never have tried internet dating before now.

What's important to me in a relationship are the basics: being a best friend, loving, laughing & enjoying spending time together; I have a lot of love to give that special guy in my life. I'm not a controlling or jealous type gal. (If I ever feel the need to be either of those things then there must be a trust issue and we would probably be better off without each other.)

Now to the good stuff, my potential soul mate.

I'm looking for a special guy with a heart of gold. My ideal dream match would have to be trustworthy, honest, dependable, fun-loving, good-hearted, and have good morals & values in life. I must know that my partner is willing to share his deepest emotional thoughts and desires; someone that is willing to open up to me and let me into their lives. I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts within our relationship; someone who would admit to being wrong sometimes. I must have someone who is comfortable giving & receiving affection; a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his compassion, attention, sympathies & love.

I'm a little partial to construction type guys or a guy that has an athletic build who looks good in blue jeans and I also take to the professionals that can enjoy being outdoors, and of course, I like them cowboys. I don't know what it is about them YOUNGER guys, but they really turn me on.

Still Reading? Good!

I'm looking for someone that knows how to treat a gal; someone who can be romantic, compassionate, gentle & kind, and that I can spend quality time with; someone that I can have meaningful conversations with (good at talking & listening), and who will love me for me & will appreciate me not only for who I am & the values that I stand for, but would also treat me as his best friend & partner; he would be the guy that I always want to spend more time with and the one that I can't keep my mind off of. I'm looking for someone I click with; You know, that chemistry or the school girl crush feeling that leaves you thinking about him as opposed to "Hmmm, he's alright. If he calls, I'll answer". But at the same time, I must have a partner who will give me space to be my own person.

I need someone that is not afraid to show his true feelings and someone that is going to leave past baggage in the past. Someone with wit, charm, a great sense of humor, a warm personality, a nice big smile, & a nice appearance (mentioned about chemistry already) would definitely please me. Oh, I can't forget to mention these also; someone that knows how to take care of himself - You know, good hygiene, & other personal habits (teeth, the way you look & dress, etc.); someone that is emotionally & financially secure, and someone that does not have to rely on me to revolve their world for them. I'm looking for someone to complement my life rather than complicate my life.

To help you out a little more, here is my "Can't Stand" list:

I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
I can't stand someone who bases their happiness on me.
I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy about their life.
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
Fiscally Irresponsible...
I can't stand someone who is incapable of managing their money.
I can't stand someone who focuses on imperfection.
I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational drugs.
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is himself/herself.
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside of a committed relationship.

No, I'm not really that picky, but you kinda get the idea now what I'm about.

So, if you have similar interests & passions and think that you may be my soul mate, please add me & e-mail me. I would love to hear from you. P.S. If you send me an e-mail, I WILL request a photo of you.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Hmm ... let's see ...

So many things I enjoy; it's very hard to pick just one particular first date option. Whatever it is, it has to be in a very public place to start with & there must be chemistry between us; two people who are attracted to each other, seem to get along great with each other, share the same intriguing gaze while looking into each others eyes, who both share the same interests, passions, & goals, and may even finish each others sentences, laughing & smiling at each others every word, & a longing to know that at the end of this first perfect date that there will be many more to come. I don't know, maybe something that includes a long walk on a moonlit night, sitting on a bench by a beautiful stream or pond at a park, talking for hours on end loosing all track of time getting to know the other person. I might have the guy decide what he would like for us to do on the first date, just to see what he is like & where his heart is.

But ...

If I were to describe the perfect casual weekend, it would be getting up early on a Spring Saturday to go bass or crappie fishing at the lake. Then we would have a picnic lunch under some trees overlooking the lake, getting to know each other better. And later on cuddle up watching some great movies for a romantic night.

Oh, Sunday ... wake up to a great country breakfast & go walking in a nearby park, etc. to feed the ducks & all. And just when I'm not looking, you would give me a little daisy that you picked. This is just till the race comes on; you may could talk me into taping it though. I could go on & on with more detail ... you just might have to find out how this weekend ends.

(3/3/06) PLEASE NOTE: (Brand new on this site 3/2/06)

Wow! I must say I'm incredibly & pleasantly surprised there are so many single guys looking for single gals. It is really refreshing to know that there are guys out there looking for a relationship & not just a one night stand, hookup, or booty call (whatever you want to call it). I wasn't expecting too much from this; I am way overwhelmed.

(12/5/06) - Ok, please don’t take this wrong ...

First I want to say "Thank you from the bottom of my heart" to all the people that have been sending me so many messages (most days "40+"); they mean the world to me! I do take the time to read every message that I receive & I am so grateful that so many people have such caring hearts!

Now, the bad news ... There just ain’t enough hours in a day to answer everyone’s messages. I have tried really hard to keep up with them all, but I can’t. So, if I do not reply back, please don’t be mad at me for not having enough time, as I don’t spend all my waking hours on my computer. Eventually I will try to answer as time permits.

P.S. To all that have asked how my Father is after surgery, he is doing wonderfully well now!

Good Luck to all on POF!