Before you start reading to save your time and my time , they are two rules:
1. If you live more than 40 KM from Yonge and Bloor , just stop and search for another fish. I got emails for a meeting in Hamilton, or Kitchener.
Just think honest, how practical is to see somebody for a diner at 100 Km away.
I live in Mississauga and going downtown for a lunch or diner is feasible, but not farther.
2. I put my pictures on the profile. If you do not have pictures, i will not respond. I think it is fair.
If I would like to impress you and get your attention, all I have to do is to read 20-30 women profiles and make a compilation of their ideal partner. Good looking, fit, honest with the sense of humor , caring about you and family, grown up, intelligent, respectful about others feelings, know how to listen, family oriented, and everything which women wants…………… That will be a gross lie.
At my age, I learned what to do or not in life. I know what is permitted or not, and I have a good feeling about being a good partner or friend.
It is hard to write your own sale speech but I will try at the best of my abilities. Honest, sincere, with great sense of humor. I have high moral values and I do not bend them. I respect ANY woman mostly in an old fashion way, did you see Casablanca?. If yes, you know how to treat a woman. I still open the door for women, take the coat or arrange the chair in the restaurant.
I like travel, computers, music from Mozart to Disco , dining , good books , good movies, and HUMOR . I am addicted to jokes and my mailbox gets 10 to 15 jokes a day. I cannot stop my self laughing loud when I read a good one. I love sometime to joke with perfect strangers (flight attendants, receptionists, cashiers, or who ever happen to be in that moment there). It is a big turn on for me to see that I made somebody to laugh so hard that needs a second to recover his or her breath.` Life is so hard sometimes, so why not make it a little bit funny. Is like taking a teaspoon of honey after a bitter medicine …. Buckley ?
What I am looking for ? Good question. Do not forget that being a male ( read thesaurus for definition , or at the end of this chapter) , I am looking for a good looking women ( show me the man which does not, unless is gay) , with a great sense of humor, share the same interests , or some ….. , likes to cook ( for men love was always an extension of the digestive tube ), and knows the meaning of the expression “equal partner” .
It might be more but the space is limited so, for what I forgot, you just fill in the blanks or ask me. My perfect match?!?! Hmmmmm….. I am greedy and I want all the qualities in one person. What I miss will complete me, and what I have will be shared. In the priority order I look at honesty, great sense of humor, open, family oriented, loyal, dependable, sexy, and good listener. Maybe I want more, but I am not sure now what I missed here, so let’s get together and see where to add or take out something.
At my age I have a very well defined personality, and the ideal match has to integrate with that and be willing to accept me as I am. I can bend some of my rules or try to meet you in the middle of the bridge but you have to do the same with you. In the end, ONE WORD OF ADVICE. If your photo is since you graduate the high school, you better send me the update before considering replying. I had unpleasant surprises to go to a date and start looking for her, when she usually found me in no time. I put my photo how I look NOW. I expect the same. Thank you for understanding
If you are good to read more between the lines , drop me a line or two and catch my interest. Until then, good luck on your fishing trip.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Playing the "Job interview game" in a nice and quiet restaurant.
I will answer the questions during appetizer (she will have a divided attention at the menu and wine list, than my answers; I can eat during the main course while she struggles between food and answering), then I will put the questions and enjoy my fillet Mignon, and in the end we put on the table the results and see who got the job or who lost. The desert will sweeten the victory or the loss :)
Do not forget also, that after one or two glasses of wine, the chemistry (drink until i look beautiful, strong and fit) is moved on second plan , while the conversation become more loose and slowly start sliding in a free slope toward the true, anxiety is gone , and the intellectual bond start to develop.
Romans were right when they said: “In vino veritas” translate to English as “ In wine we find the true”
Now, in the serious side, I suggest:
GET CONNECTED. It is like an interview for a job. Make your partner to want to meet you again. Talk enough about yourself to make the other curious to want to know more, but in the same time be a good listener. Do not dominate the event with your supper achievements or the story of your life because shortly she will lose interest on you. Listen and pay attention to what she said, because later you will remember that you were told that, but you were paying attention to her cleavage and her words were passing near to your ear. Have a lot of fun, tell jokes, but listen too. Do not expect to jump on her bed on the return home, and if you are lucky enough to get a kiss, be thankful to that. The time will come for the intimates' encounters. I see the first date to a concert, show, or similar like that, follow by dinner in a nice and cozy restaurant, or if she want, replace the restaurant with a dance club, walk on the streets at two in the morning hand in hand, drive her home, and from there let your imagination fly.
I detest and do not do coffee shops and i accept at least a lunch if the evening is to complicated.