smoothbeyonder: Hopeless Romantic... ;)
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Spartanburg, South Carolina
38 year old Male, 6' 0" (183cm), Christian - other
Black, Cancer
smoothbeyonder is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
College Student/Temp. Work/Volunteer

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year
Pets Cat & Dog  

About Brion
Last updated Monday, November 23, 2009 at 10:25am.

(***)Means an updated potion...

Please bare with me here; as I am presently working on this profile... ;)

***I originally wrote this profile a few years ago; but don't worry, everything still applies to the present. However, I was wanting to clarify a very small part of my profile: a very small part that potentially means a world of difference. Only I intentionally left this part out thinking that I could just tell a person(s) later; but I drastically underestimated the importance of this information. That information, that I originally left out, is that even though I have no kids of my own; I am in a situation that is definitely like having 4 children: in that I am the legal guardian of 4 children(3 nephews and a little niece)and on a day-to-day basis I am partly responsible for their well-being. So, case-in-point, I am very good with children and very understanding of those in similar situations or with kids of their own.

A Little About Myself:

I am some one who is very kind-hearted. I love helping people and it doesn't matter at all if I don't know them or even particularly like the way they are acting. Also, I hate doing anything that is mean or rude or that hurts another's feelings.

On my humor: Oh'no! Oh'man!...It is simply crazy as crazy gets. That wonderful and even sometimes naughty crazy that makes your side split open and water your eyes and leaves you on the floor hopelessly begging for someone to stop and let you please catch your breath... :P I am insanely funny and my laughter is very contagious; just like the ;). Not to mention, my sarcasm is perfectly honed and laser-sharp; as well as its timing and its "appropriate" use. My humor is also custom-fitted too; in that every person is different and not the same. As I converse and get to know a person better; I am also looking to see what makes them laugh the most. In little or no time (in a lot of cases) I find that perfect formula for an individual's specific sense of humor or even a whole groups' sense of humor; it doesn't matter. And then I start to weave a silky smooth and almost flawless design to meet and then surpass there laughing requirements for that day and for days after. Also, I don't try to make others laugh at the expense of another's feelings either... :(.

On my intellect: Well, to say that I am very intellectual is somewhat of an understatement. I am hopelessly intellectual. I love thinking about almost everything. And I am constantly thinking of different theories and ways to look at almost everything. I am a very passionate at debating. Modestly here... :/, I must also admit that more than one have said that I was a genius; but I don't really know about that... :P

About Romance: I am also hopelessly romantic. I can romance about almost anything but I don't now. I am very responsible with it; in that I know and understand the effect it can have on a person. I am the type that will hug a woman, or young lady, without her ever having to ask me; in that I just can see that she might need it, or just to simply show her that I care. Also, I am very much into gift-giving for no special reason, other than to make someone feel special... ;)

On My Enthusiasm: When I am around others I am intoxicatingly enthusiastic; and it would take a whole lot to change that. When I am around others, I just light up even more and I smile a lot. And smiling isn't really a good thing for me to do either(more on this later here... ;)).

About My Smile: I am sorry, or should I say that I am kind of sorry, that I don't have a photo available of myself smiling. "Kind of" in that my smile just might be my most dominant or charming feature when I first meet someone or when they first see me. And that is why I try not to smile too much. Unfortunately, my smile (in combination with my sincerity and overall sweet personality) has got me into a lot of trouble over the years. And I have seen the good that my smile brings about (especially in others); and I have also seen the not-so-good (the unintentional heart-break) it has helped to cause... :( And so I don't ever really smile to look good, or to just charm someone, or anything like that... :/. Although that is not to say that I still don't smile a lot, because I do. I just always try to be mindful of the effect(s) that my smiling may have on others... ;).

On My Affection: Well, suffice it to say, I just may be one of the most affectionate guys that you will ever meet. Don't be surprised if that affection rivals your own; in that I care a great deal about almost everything and everyone. I go to great lengths to show my care about things and people. I love to stroke a woman's hair, to hug her, to kiss her forehead, and even to hold her hand and kiss it in an affectionate manner. Also, I am very good with my hands and I love to give massages. I also love to cuddle and with NO intention or expectation of deeper intimacy... :).

About My Compassion: As you probably can already tell, I am unusually compassionate (at least for a guy). I hate seeing someone else in pain or suffering or really sad. Also, when wrong has been done unto me, I can often find compassion and be able to forgive others for it... ;)

About My Understanding: I am truly breathtakingly understanding. Understanding usually comes from experiencing or learning about something in some way, usually. But with me it is different in some way...


Also, I am amazingly patient (maybe even too much), very honest and very wise. Another thing about me is that I am very, very, forgiving. It doesn't matter the deed I can always find a way to readily forgive someone. Also, my self-confidence is pretty off-the-chart at times, as well as my courage...At the end of the day, I am just someone special... =)



What I Am Looking For:

I am looking for a lot things. But what I need is more important and far more simple. And all that I need is someone that is special in someway or another. If that is present then I am more than willing to try to work with that. In that I almost always seem to bring out the very best in others; by simply being who it is that I am... ;)


Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Well, well, some people might find first dates awkward or extremely awkward or even scary... :O. But, on the other hand, I love them. There so exciting and the level of anticipation is so high, it can be quite exhilarating. I guess the question now is why do I love first dates; more specifically what is so "exciting", why is my anticipation so high, and what is so exhilarating about it.

I am just simply good with people. If they are shy then I know how to get them to open up and smile a bit more and talk some. If they are way too talkative about nothing special, I know how to get them to listen more and think a little more. If they are uncertain or uncomfortable, I know how to get them to relax. (In this case, I don't have to do a lot in that my very nature and manner makes others comfortable and relaxed when they are around me or just talking to me...) ;).

It also doesn't help that I am also a very brilliant listener. In that I hear what people are telling me as well as what they aren't telling me. But my listening and awareness goes much further than this. I can also tell by the way a person is talking and behaving what they are feeling (and even thinking at times): the pauses between their words and the way in which they word their sentences. :). Also, silence speaks volumes too... :P

But about what I would do on a first date. This is simple...In that I would probably do whatever both of us felt comfortable doing. It really wouldn't matter all that much because I am comfortable doing a lot of things; and I have the ability to make even the simplest things special and most enjoyable... =). Also, I simply love going really slow as for as deep intimacy goes. In that I love to make love to the mind and the soul, long before I ever make love to the body. Any deeper intimacy isn't "needed" when a woman feels perfectly at ease and perfectly at peace in one's arms...