I'm looking for an intelligent, self ownership lady who is of her mind, body and soul. She shall be someone who is in love with life and can laugh at herself as well. It dosn't mean you have to laugh at my jokes if they are not funny but, Involving your life with humor and letting the outside world not weigh you down into the ground. I am a happy and a up-beat kind of man by nature, and I am looking for a like person. If you are neurotic, fearful, and live in gloom, doubt, worry and depression, its not my world to bring home. If you are wishy washy, wrapped up in criticism, negitivism and, "what's wrong with everybodyelse", Please, save us the pain. I have been through that log mill, and have found greater things to contemplate. I am a teacher and counselor by trade, I can hear all this at work. I have learned not to bring home any dark clouds, and would not like to have a relationship with anybody like this. Back to the positive things which keep the sun's energy recycled, lets live, laugh and be grateful for what we can make of it. I am not perfect either, but working on issues is different than running from them. be prepared to be teased, smiled at and given a rope from what others would make you use as a club. I am compassionate, passionate and someome who is refreshingly differient.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My first date wolld be to get to know you away from the crowds, noise and distraction of the worlds own circus. A walk in the park, wine on a terrace, quite music and candles would be a great environment. I don't want to go out again with someone with the inflated ego, and illusions of grandure. Perhaps, a grip on reality, would be appreciated as well and an appreciation of the human condition now and of tomorrow as well. Just to many critics out there, and never any solutions or stewards to make a difference. Also, smiles and optomism would get great reviews! I am really not so pestimistic, but I am trying to root out the flawed hens from the optomistic 10's. I need soul mate, not a cornflake. (meant as humor!) :>)