I am a fun and loving woman who has learned a lot of life's lessons and still learning everyday. I am quite content on my own but would love to find someone who has the qualities and characteristics that I would need in my soul mate. These qualities would include an openness to faith, honesty, humour and the ability to laugh at one's self. Call me superficial, but I am most attracted to fit men who are taller than I am and aging gracefully as I believe I am. I consider myself to be reasonably fit but this aging process sucks!. I love quiet times, most types of music, dancing, reading, good movies or a long walk. I love to spend time with my adult children, their children, their dogs and my Mom. I guess you could say that I am quite devoted to my family. I am selective in my friendships because I just don't have the time or the energy to devote to anything casual. I need to know that I can confide in my friends and trust their discretion, otherwise I'm just wasting my time. I prefer one on one but I'm still good in a group.I consider mutual chemistry to be very important and I love intimacy with the right person. I can be stubborn, opinionated but I am independent, live from pay to pay like a lot of people these days and do not own my own home, and yes.....quite honestly, it would be nice to fall in love with a man who is more financially secure than I am. I feel that I have a lot to offer to a man who is sincere, and will love me for the person I am. I must say however that I don't want either of us to have to drive a distance to meet as I will not relocate and I don't want to create expectations or obligations that I am not ready for. I am very sorry if my stated preferences offend you but I figure that will save us both some time and grief. Honesty is always the best policy.
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A coffee, a drink or a glass of wine and perhaps an appetizer together in a cozy place is a comfortable and non-intimidating way to get to know someone.