first of all, I just moved (indefinitely) to Raleigh September 1st to help start a new branch of the Solid Rock; a jesus church family, so.... I don't know anything around here lol
also, please read my whole profile before messaging me, i'm blunt and am not afraid to call you on it if you haven't. it's all there for a reason. thanks :)
i would like to date someone who is a manly man with a soft spot for me. i need someone INTELLIGENT who believes in some sort of christianity (catholic, baptist, protestant, whatever- just have the basics: god/jesus/bible), NO EXCEPTIONS. i dont even care if you go to church right now (but i would want someone willing to go with me). i care most about sharing faith. also, someone who doesn't do drugs, doesn't smoke (anything!) and doesnt have kids. i'd like someone who is LOGICAL, respectful, doesn't hunt, has nice teeth, knows how to dress himself (we're adults, you should know stuff like no sweatpants on dates, c'mon), listens and has compassion for me as i would for them and isn't stick thin, i like my men man-sized :) if you listen to metal or play an instrument, even better (but not required).... and please dont message me about my hair or tattoos, it's extremely annoying.
so, about me: i've come to the conclusion that i'm a jumble of walking contradictions. i tend to act like a diva sometimes, but other times i act like a boy, making dirty jokes; i like to be clean and have manners, but i also have been known to drink out of 2 liter bottles (and put them back, to my mother's horror). in highschool, i was the ''drummer chick'' in bands, but i was also the varsity knowledge bowl captain. im a true rocker at heart but i love dancing to rap and singing the ridiculous lyrics. i know exactly what i want, yet i can't seem to make meaningless decisions, like where to eat.
i use proper grammar and punctuation, yet i never capitalize letters.
i guess a few things i've gathered should be additionally noted are (in no specific order): 1.) i'm a fairly intense person, not that "chill" or "sweet" person. i've been referred to as high strung, sassy, blunt, straight forward, serious, and intense (like previously metioned). 2.) i also have a dry/sarcastic sense of humor, not generally a silly person. 3.) i'm not an outdoorsy person. 4.) i am not afraid to call you on your shit. 5.) i'm looking for something real. a real connection, not a hook up or even some shallow flirting practice type "date". more like my best friend and lover. 6) I dont kiss mustaches. yes, im serious. they look gross and i have insanely sensitive skin that i would rather not have sanded off...NO EXCEPTIONS, i don't care how soft it is or how short you trim it. 7.) im NOT into having kids... ever! there's a lot of reasons I don't want kids. they are well thought out and respectable and im frankly very sick of people on here questioning it. if you don't like it, don't message me. and 8.) don't just ask me for more pictures, i have plenty on here and it just makes it obvious how shallow you are.
ps.... i'm curvy or "thick" or whatever you wanna call it. i will never be a skinny b***, so.... keep that in mind!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm not the guy, I don't decide these things! But movies are lame on a first date, just sayin ;-)