Hello Boys and Men of all ages:
It's been years since I have actively been on this site. Met a few good guys and then a mess of wanna be Casanova's-without the charm. I'd like to find someone to share my moments with. Someone who can be my equal. I do not want any FWB-or ANYTHING of that nature. And boys-be original! I am not on here for sex. If you start any conversation with-"Hey what size or those?" or "I bet I could wake you up" or "Damn baby we could have a good time together" I will politely once ask you to stop please. After that I will become extremely unpleasant. I am not being coy or cute or flirty. I mean it. And please have a little self respect for yourselves-if you are already talking like that-you obviously don't give two figs about dating-you just want to get a slice of vagina pie-which I don't serve to****holes..
I am a single parent who works and goes to school. My free time is limited so I'd like to make the most of it. If my work calls for me to come in-I will work. So if something is planned and I have to tell you, 'Hey raincheck-I gotta work" it does not mean I am blowing you off- It means I need some money to provide for myself and my child. This means I will not be able to drive outside of my town to meet you. I try to stay in close proximity for my job. I am not looking for intimate encounters. I do not do casual sex. I'm not lookin for a quick bang.
I don't care what color your skin is-as long as you are an adult who isn't a douchebag. So if me dating someone who isn't white is a problem-take a hike. Everyone is beautiful. Treat me well, take care of yourself and be intelligent and witty-and I am game. I also have some mixed blood-so if that makes me not "white" enough for you-move along. Life is entirely to short to be intolerant.
I love concerts, movies, dinner, coffee houses, pool halls etc etc.
Interested in sci-fi (Not any of that Twilight crap) music, cooking, camping, piercings, tattoos, books-read virtually everything can get my hands on, blah blah blah..... Favorite shows- The Walking Dead-I have the comics and the graphic novels. Sons of Anarchy, Ink Master/Face Off, And Robot Chicken.
Looking to get my degree in athletic training at NOC then travel down to the OKC area and get my Master's in Physical Therapy. So-here's at least 8 years of school. Yay for higher learning.
I am serious about being a non-drinker. My child has asked for me to not drink, wanting at least one person in his life who isn't on drugs or a drunk. I wasn't much of a drinker so this won't be much of a stretch.I am an athiest-please I do not want anyone contacting me-trying to save my soul. I am quite happy with my life and my choices. I have no problem with others' religions-but I will graciously decline any offers to convert. And on that note-if those convictions render me "undateable" why the heck would I still sleep with you? I have respect for myself. So keep moving-don't contact me about how we could just be fuk buddies. You guys are killing me here with your stupidity.
I am hilarious. I have references if needed. I just want to hang out with someone I can tolerate. I would like to have conversations, discussions, even arguements when we don't agree on issues. Even though I am a female- I know how to LISTEN without yammering on. Promise! Pinky swear! And if something is there that may develop into something more, I am not opposed. I just realisitcally don't expect to fall in love right off the bat after a few chats or dates. I don't think just talking to you makes us going steady. And if we do have dinner, I am not going to assume that you have fallen madly in love with me. (even though resistence is futile) And I want to talk to you here on this site or via text before meeting. That helps weed out the crazies.
I know I probably sound a little b!tchy butI just want to be clear. Please message me-we can tell tall tales and compare scars-remember-chicks dig scars-and general bullshi!!ery :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First date....probably a coffeehouse just to meet up and see if either of us cringes in sheer horror.