Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Im open to doing anything that allows both of us to feel comfortable and secure, but where there's not too much background noise to distract our focus from one another. Ideally I'd like to grab a coffee or soda, and go for a canoe paddle or secluded picnic. but, for practical purposes(If the date is awkward and unbearable,and, for the woman's-or man's-safety and privacy reasons)I think the best thing to do would be to meet independently at a quiet public cafe. again, not my ideal, but until you get a better sense of the person, the really cool activities should be reserved for later dates. oh twere a perfect world.