PLEASE SAY HELLO, I WILL NOT THINK YOU ARE FORWARD, JUST SMART IN BEING PROACTIVE. So, for all you who call yourself "sassy" (whatever that means) show me your sass? In other words, instead of carping about the fools who try to ply you, try actually selecting what you are looking for [i.e., college degree etc..] rather than waiting for some frog to jump. Fairy tales are not real so your kiss wont transform them into a prince, just lower you to their level. As preface to observations, sometimes strangers give you the best (honest) info, like a mall clerk (my age) gave me recently when I joked about looking for a new wife. In all sincerety, she said the four criteria all women want [not necessarily in this order] as follows: 1) attentiveness 2) respect 3) funny 4) pay for everything... Now I conclude further.
As for the screen name, get your minds out of the gutter. I am not Debbie, you are. I only mean to say that I am a doer as opposed to a watcher. That means I am the opposite to what you women [known as football widows] know about guys who are fan'atics'. These guys dress like kids, wear jerseys & sneakers everywhere, and on special ocassions, cheese on their heads, so they can identify with something, anything, besides their own useless existence. Funny how Jerry Jones owns the team but you don't see him dressing that way. The truck-drivers eat, drink and sleep eveybody elses' sports teams, like wannabes ("jock-sniffers") who spend their time dreaming of what it would be like to be one of the adults who actually get paid to play childrens' games. Oh, BTW, they have a new field here for whether you are "ambitious" as if anybody who says they are "not", suggests they are some stoner couch-potatoe [instead of a trust fund baby] who can't pay his meager rent and all you wannabe hotties [who want a sugar-daddy] are somehow different because you spend your kids' child support money on getting mani-pedis, facials and liposuction so you can find your fourth "soul mate". Knock-Knock, Anybody Home? Is there a mirror close by? So, now, think twice before answering that question.... Your "ambition" may come back to haunt you.
I like the town and the country with dogs to fetch and horses to race, so long as I dont have to spend much time taking care of them. Spent too much caretaking already, It's time to relax and enjoy the rest with the right companion.
After the jokes you want to hear--reading many women's profiles, they all say much the same, that they do not play games, they want an honest man and they like travel and fine dining. Other than that, they say the guys never look or act like they say in correspondence. Many want guys who are younger, as if younger guys don't want older gals (for one thing [it aint sex] to "take care of them" like younger women have done to older men for centuries. Wake up you aging matrons, its a brave new world and it aint always prettty, like plastic surgeons, Spanx and push-up bra manufacturors, or young boys [who were not breast-fed as children (just 10 years ago)] want you to think. Sorry, Mama! He aint that into ya... BTW, he ain't " paying for everything" you are...!
I have been told by some that I should not be so serious. They say I should actually play games [that they say they do not like] instead of being so honest, which they suggest is not "chivalrous", whatever that means in today's world. Face it ladies, the social contract is broken. It reminds me of the Rolling Stones' song, "Some Girls". So, if you care about what men "really" think [as opposed to the pablum you fall for] listen to the lyrics. Here's another one I learned recently from a nurse who told me about all the guys who end up in emergency rooms because they wannabe Marlin Brando (now reported to gay ala 'Rock' Hudson) by riding a "donor cylce" in their old age. You old wannabe biker Mols should also think twice about the wind in your hair and vibration between your legs. Make sure he took his meds first. You might wanna visit Best Buy instead. They're having a big sale on appliances.
Some think I am too skeptical so I reply that I am not trying to sugar-coat the baloney posted by the masses of asses on these sites. I do not want to be everything to everybody and anybody who sounds like that is probably an ex-convict or on the run from ex-wives for child-support. I hardly ever make first contact just because women have it too easy on these sites and I have little time for waiting in line to say the same things you all want to hear. Games???? You can't handle the truth!
I am not interested in current or ex military, cops, the foreign born or hootchie types. I am looking for a real relationship predicated on several types of common attraction but, sadly, women all say the same nothings, which makes men wonder. With me, you have to do more than be pretty and show up. By the way, please tell me what "loves to laugh" means in womanspeak? It suggests, I suppose rightfully, that some of you love to cry. I thought that laughing was universally good so, please excuuuuse me for not understanding. I am not buying or selling here so, I refuse to pander to the same old cliches like long walks on the beach. Who doesn't like fine dining and travel? I am not interested in filling a woman's dance card while she plays the field. I am a serious and good man who cares about the life hereafter more than being of this world. You need to ask for more details though I am comfortable that I will rate in the highest percentile of any of my age group on every conceivable standard of measure. If you want husband number three or more, as Bob Dylan said: 'it aint me babe'. For those who say they are old fashioned and want a soul mate, that's what you told the last guy who thought it was him.
Pretty faces are great but a caring and dedicated nature is just as important.
Causes: Reform civil justice, Economic development, Reform politics
Movies: LooseChange911, Matrix, Die Hards, Blues Bros., Tombstone, Devil's Advocate, Constantine [good vs evil]
Food: Chinese, Creole, Continental, Italian
Music: Smooth Jazz, R&B, Texas Roadhouse, Techno,
Art and design: Empire, Art Deco, some moderne and contemporary
Media not much TV save reruns of Law Order and old movies, mostly nonfiction, youtube documentaries and action-adventure anything hosted by Bill Moyer's and written by John Grisham
For anybody on here who wishes to read more, I cut and paste the following post from a forum on this site by a guy who is admittedly younger and possibly as good or better looking than me. On the topic of why women have the upper hand on this site he stated the on the topic: Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women, but the site cut it
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:06:20 PM
haha... :) you sent just