Hi I'm Chris and I live a pretty phenomenal life. I'm going for a 10 out of 10 life. Im currently at a 9, the question is whether you are the 1 to make it a 10?
So picture this. You've been dating me for about 6 months and you're at one of your get togethers with your girl friends.
You're all having a good time catching up. As time goes on, you find yourself with less and less to say.
It gets to the point where you have nothing to say and you are really starting to feel like the odd one out...
And that's when it hits you.
The topic of conversation has shifted to complaining about boyfriends.
They're talking about how selfish their boyfriends are, how oblivious they are, how they don't consider the things that they say before they say them. Worse yet, their boyfriends often think they are saying something nice but it's the way they say it that is the real clue that they really don't mean what they say.
They complain about how when their boyfriends are not talking about themselves, they're not really listening to you. They may give the casual nod, or 'oh yeah' but don't bother to mute the TV and actually turn face to face giving their full attention.
You're deserpately searching your memory for a similar experience, but you're seriously struggling.
You consider making something up just to feel part of the group again, but you can't bring yourself to do it. You've built up too much mutual respect with me.
Then a feeling of gratitude washes over you. You smile, sit back and feel quite happy to just observe.
Suddenly you feel glad to be the odd one out.
If you want to be the odd one out, if you think the above scenario is a problem you'd like to have, send me a message now x
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I love restaurants so it'd have to be going out to eat at a place neither of us had been before.
I also think cafe meets are good because they are informal, public and short so you know you don't have to stay long if you're not enjoying yourself ; )