DocElffington: Smile! Your dentist said I cause cavities! No RBFs
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Eugene/springfield, Oregon
45 year old Male, 6' 0" (183cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Virgo
DocElffington wants to date but nothing serious.
Bachelors Degree
Free Thinker

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Me
I'm too sweet and probably bad for you. But you'll eat me up anyway! ??

I know how to fix stuff. I've neglected my health in the past, obviously. But I'm fixing that too!

Be Forewarned. This is REALLY long, but worth it!

I have been told that I have a big/full personality and that sometimes women may feel intimidated by it. I only bite if you like it. LOL

I quit smoking December 02, 2008!

Myers-Briggs = ENFJ - "ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on understanding, supporting, and encouraging others. They make things happen for people, and get their best personal satisfaction from this."

I'm facetious with a sarcastic and quick witted sense of humor. I often talk in abstracts and can be obscure. I'm NO stand-up or slap-stick comedian. But, I don't take myself too seriously either. I'm not PC and my personality is very colorful! I'm just a regular, normal guy who is not photogenic. I would say that I am somewhat old fashioned, with a modern flair. I've cut my own hair for nearly 15 years [gasp]. As expected I'm independant and don't live under someone else's roof.

I'm a sweetheart of a guy, without being a doormat. I'm a REAL man that handles business and takes no shyt. But I'm also sensitive to your needs. I'm not perfect, by any means. But I think that the right woman will find her life enhanced, with me in it. I'm very open, honest, and sometimes wear my heart on my sleeve. But, I keep plenty of me in reserve, waiting for the right woman to delve deeper.

I'm not one of those serial e-mailers! I don't contact 100s of women on here. And I'm not shy. I like an independent and assertive woman! If you look at my profile, yet don't message me? I'm going to assume that you're NOT interested. Afterall, just because you looked doesn't imply interest! Fav. List me or something! Show a lil interest and if I want it, I'll come get it!

My confidence occasionally crosses the line of arrogance, but not too bad. I may look big, mean, and scary. But I'm really just a nice person. I have that awesome personality and sense of humor that you've been looking for. I'm just not. . . . . . .Pretty!!

Top 40: Greatest Catch List

1.Great Personality
2.Makes you laugh and laughs with you
3.Tries to be light-hearted, even in the worst situations and circumstances
4.Surprises you with spontaneous ideas
5.Big Hearted
6.Will soothe your heart and ease your fears
7.Open to ANY conversation
8.Easy to be around and feel comfortable being yourself
9.Attentive and generous lover
10.A guy you could talk on the phone with for 7 hours and enjoy every minute of it

11.Is independent, yet appreciative of inter-dependence(that thing that makes us complement each other)
12.Will cook and do the dishes right alongside of you
13.Will treat you just as good around friends as he does in private
14.Will stop what he's doing(within reason) and focus on you when you are around
15.Has February 14th memorized and knows why it's important to you.
16.Wants to take you places, either for fun or romance
17.Is a big, strong and tall man that you can comfortably snuggle with
18.Knows when to treat you like a lady and when not to
19.Does those things that many guys these days don't do(Chivalry)
20.Is supportive of your goals and efforts

21.Is appreciative of your femininity and the sweet little things you do for him
22.Isn't bossy, controlling, or overly jealous
23.Is more agreeable to requests than demands
24.Is gentle, yet firm with guidance and leadership
25.Enjoys your assertiveness and right as an equal
26.Will never lay a hand on you in anger
27.Likes to smile for you and see your smile
28.Will always flirt with you
29.Enjoys intimacy, passion, and sensuality
30.Wants to bond with you on a mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual level

31.Will dote on you and pamper the crap out of you when you're not well
32.Will dote on you and spoil the crap out of you when you ARE well
33.Will accept your family as his family(even if they are as dysfunctional as his)
34.Avoids drama and won't bring you any
35.Accepts you as you are, now and later
36.Likes to sit and just look at you endlessly
37.Enjoys soul-searching through the eyes
39.Likes your individuality and wants to learn from you sometimes
40.Is an awesome listener

I could put you to sleep with a longer list, but your eyes are probably bleeding already!

"But no matter how many fish in the would feel so empty without me! - Eminem

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I see you checking me out!

Don't you think you should just say hi and see where it goes?

Before describing a first date, tell me about you. What do I want to know? Anything that you feel like sharing with me AND things that I don't already know about you. I WILL say that Dutch is a language, not a spending habit, in my book. And I will NEVER take a lady to a fast food joint on a date, for many reasons! LOL

I've never been on a "bad" date. But, I feel like I know the person and feel comfortable interacting with them before a "date" ever becomes a possibility. Either via IM or phone conversation, or both, I think that we should have an established dialogue before discussing a "meet up."

I've been called "Too Picky" before. But I don't believe in "leagues" since I've always dated out of them! And I've had some great relationships too.

What am I looking for? A woman that tosses the fricken rule book out the window!

There has to be more there than a "spark" or chemistry. I mean, I have chemistry with my friends. But that doesn't mean that I want to have any kind of intimate relationship with any of them. Mutual attraction. Conversation that you're always looking forward to. The desire and ability to meet me halfway in everything.
I can't dance, but I understand it. I step, you step, we step. Movement in harmony towards a desired goal.

In any case, I would like to spend some time with you, keep it casual/no expectations other than good company, maybe go DO something, have some fun, and enjoy life!
I like a feminine, girly girl. Someone that is Down to Earth and easy-going. She can easily be a home body or up for a road trip. Can find pleasure and joy in the simple things/little things. I like it when a woman smells good. NOT that old woman perfume, but a light scent. One that you have to get really close up to even notice. I like a woman to have her own fashion sense and not be trendy. I want a woman that wants me as much as I want her and she's not afraid to express it. I like a VERY affectionate woman and PDA is preferred. She must be able to give as good as she gets!

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