I'm very happy with where I'm at in life. I’m active, down-to-earth, affectionate, and interested in trying and learning new things. I like road trips with no destination, quirky/unique shops, and any water related activity. I'm an assortment of opposites - I enjoy cooking together and eating out; travel and spending time at home; nice hotels and camping; the activities city life has to offer and being in the country. I am a happy, casual, artistic, Mr.-Fix-It. The hair that I have is mainly brown with some gray at the temples.
I am employed, family oriented, and like to stay active. I am not jealous, and don't have a gambling, drinking or drug problem, I don't do drugs at all. I'm not a control freak, and t is unlikely that you will ever see me angry. I hope you have most of these qualities too.
I have a long list of things I enjoy doing: playing cards, beaches, playing pool, shooting guns, DIA, and local events (car/motorcycle shows, art fairs, sporting events, comedy shows, concerts) are just some of the things I enjoy. There are activities going on almost every weekend ...let's do some of them!
Smiles, laughter, and doing things together are what is important = shared memories (the "share" part is important). I've traveled a lot, and am always up for another trip.
Confident, smart (regardless of formal education), have style and artistic side, and not afraid to color outside of the lines. If you are looking for a texting buddy please pass me by. (I want to meet and spend time together) Optimal age is 37-55, I don’t care if your birth certificate says you are outside of that range – as long as you are reasonably active and can be responsible when necessary. I prefer someone who is, at a minimum, open to a serious relationship. You are able to sit back and enjoy the good times, but have the fortitude to not bail during the rough times.
WORK / HOME:
I have a good job and I enjoy it, but it doesn't define me. My job gives me the ability to live anywhere in a couple of States, so relocating is a possibility. For that reason I will not let geography be a restrictive boundary at this point in my life. If I write to you, it is because you are in an area that fits with my life.
At home, I prefer to relax, laugh, and enjoy the day.
In the world that I was raised: a man should be able to protect his family, is expected to be able to fix things around the house (not just hire someone else to fix them), be a good role model for kids (regardless of their age), and be employed. I spent the last 18 years raising my son as a single dad. I enjoyed raising him. He is an adult now.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First dates should be someplace where both people are comfortable, where it is easy to talk, and there is some activity.
I not interested in talking/texting for months without meeting, also not interested in casual sex.
Not a fan of my time being wasted, I’m real with much to offer the right woman . Only serious people please, not into a hookup , married women threesomes, or anything outside of moral old fashioned. Willing to wait for the right one for me. If you don't respond back I will assume your inbox is too full and you never read my email, assume no response means no interest, or you are on here for just a hookup or games.
Personality and humor a must ,
If I add you to my favorites list without contacting you first, there is only one reason - you limit who can contact you or something else in the system will not let me write to you. Write to me first and I should be able to write to you.