I like Independence in style as I am ambitious and challenging physically and mentally.
Dancing, swimming, motoring and loving all take long sessions as partners do not compromise short breathers.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would listen to the lady telling me over a dinner and a glass of wine about her interests before going into a real action.
I would not rush things prematurely nor wait too long. Sex is not everything I am after. though it is welcome and would be enjoyed to the last second.