If you aren't willing to live life and have a good time then you should probably just skip me. I'm not interested in the traditional relationship that inevitably leads to each day bleeding into the next. Too many couples have so many stipulations on a relationship that they never do anything too risky and when they do they inevitably start fighting about it. I want a person who isn't frightened by a good time or taking the occasional risk. We are all going to die some day and while I'm alive, I would like to live. I have an open mind about EVERYTHING and hope for someone similar.
If you believe love transcends the physical body then you know love is about finding a life partner and not necessarily a "mate". Any person that enters your life could potentially become a life partner and you may have more than one. A life partner is simply someone you connect with so well, that you can depend on them in your darkest moments. Someone that is there for you when other people would make excuses. Gender has nothing to do with a life partner and a life partner may not even be human. For example your dog may be more than willing to give its life to save yours. I think in love we search for a life partner whom also can be a mate. I accept that human beings are part of the animal kingdom and as such we have cravings/desires/needs. This doesn't just apply to men but it applies to women as well. I believe that the healthiest relationships are ones where this is understood and rather than feared or denied, it is worked with. It's important to communicate in all things. Be open and honest about how you feel, what you desire and what part of you it falls under. I would like a woman who isn't intimidated or insecure about this. I want a woman who knows she can discuss anything with me. She doesn't have to hide her feelings or sugar coat her personal desires. If she wants to persue a specific career then I will be right behind her, pushing her to help her strive to reach that goal. I won't be bothered by the nature of her desires no matter what they may be. There are no "foot down" topics. There is nothing that I wouldn't be receptive to and I would hope that the same understanding and patience would come my way as well.
Life can be an adventure for those willing to take it. For example if she wanted to go bungee jumping. Personally I have no desire to jump off a cliff, however I am 100% sure that I would stand on the ledge for the right woman. I very much want my life book to be worth reading. Although I don't want to do these adventures alone and I want to find a woman who is not only willing to have such adventures, but comfortable with exploring all the things life has to offer. I'm all about a shared experience. For example would I attend an orgy alone? Probably not and no I have never done anything like that. I'm sure something like that can be an incredible experience but without someone to share it with, it just doesn't seem as interesting. I am certain merely mentioning the word "orgy" has caused most people to click the back button and that's fine. I honestly have no idea how I would handle such an event and for all I know we would arrive, look at each other then walk out. The point is being willing to try new things and approaching them with a brave respectful curiousity. That in a nutshell is what I want. Someone I never have to be afraid to express myself. Someone that at the end of the day we say "wow, I can't believe we did that!". I don't think it's a dream that's too big because I certainly don't want a woman whom wants a traditional, slow paced, safe but boring life.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would want to get together and do something you enjoy. Sure I could gamble and plan something out that you might absolutely hate or I could just ask you what you feel like doing. I'll try just about anything once and it gives me a chance to learn more about you.