I am generous, empathetic, certainly not bad-looking, often an average/comfortable dresser but occasionally showing flashes of aesthetic genius, intensely intellectual, originally a cat-lover who now thinks he would prefer a dog (no offense intended) or perhaps a dog and cat, etc.
YOU should be spontaneous, in fact a bit quirky. Also thoughtful. Part scientist, part artist.
Perhaps I'm looking for an impossible combination: I want to be intensely comfortable with you and yet never to feel that I've discovered everything about you. You'd always be just at my horizon.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
To be quite original, how about dinner or a drink?