I'm the type of girl who is always there for others, I'm a problem solver and a "fixer". I'm pretty independent, but that doesn't mean I'm not looking for someone who will Lead. I don't always want to be the strong one. lol. I'm tough on the outside, but a big ole softy on the inside. I'm not the type of girl who is clingy nor needy, and understand that you need your time, just as much as I need mine. I'm the type that will stand next you and help you do better, and will always try to help when I can. I can be a girly girl, but I'm not scared to get dirty and get the job done. I don't need to be taken care of, I can do for myself... but I'm looking for someone who will be there for me, like I will for them.
I love my heels....but I also love my Chucks. And in the summer, I'm all about the flip-flops.
I am a sucker for tattoos....especially great artistry, but I tend to avoid guys who have tattoos on their Face or Head. Cause, well...that's just a bit much for me.
I'm not looking for an instant relationship, sometimes I operate at a turtle's pace with those things. When it's right, it's right and I'm patient.
I am NOT 420 friendly. At all. Don't even bother hitting me up. Same goes for gangsters. Yes. Thugs need love too. But they ain't gonna get it from me. I'm sure there is some lovely girl out there who just LOVES her some bad boy loving. Find her.. and good luck. lol.
P.S: If I'm not Interested, it just means I'm not interested. It doesn't mean I'm being close-minded, or Racist, or stuck-up. It just means I'm not interested, so let's put our big-boy panties on and stop being so sensitive, cause it's really, really is not a good look. Lmao. Yea, I've been called all those things for my non-interest. Since when are guys so sensitive?
Oh yea, I also prefer taller guys, don't hate me for it. ;)
I volunteer with a program called TiP (trauma intervention program).... some people think it's a little morbid, but I think it's pretty amazing. Basically...it's being there to provide emotional support during the sudden death of a loved one in the home (ie..suicide, natural, overdose, homicide, etc). I can only do it on the weekends....so sometimes I have to work my social life around my on-call schedule, but it's not that bad and hasn't been an issue yet.
Let's go shooting. lol. Mind you, I don't own a gun and have never shot a gun. But it looks like a good time. :) Or Try out a new place to eat? I LOVE Thai Food, Middle Eastern (hello! Obviously), Mexican, Italian, Peruvian. I'm not a fan of Sushi though, Sorry. But I will do a Sushi place that serves "hot" food. lol. Drinks? Drinks always work. A little liquid courage never hurt anybody (until you drink too much and trip down the stairs. I won't laugh, I swear).