Wanted: African-American man who understands the old-fashioned way of meeting a girl, getting to know the girl, a date or two & only THEN trying to smash?
I'm not interested in a man telling me how he can seduce my body...tell me how you can seduce my heart...Ok Now..
Want to get to know me??? Here's how?:
1. Don't ask for my ph# or give me ures. When the time is right digits can be exchanged but not a minute B4. I realize it might be an issue 4 some.. but it's non-negotiable cuz I absolutely HATE BEING ON THE PHONE!!!
2. Don't invite me to ure crib (or invite ureself to mine)under the disguise of "gettin to know me" ..umm that's a booty call which brings me to...
3. NO Booty Calls..don't do them (anymore, lol)
4. Dinner!!!!.... at Cheddars(my fav)..hmmmm
Need more details? Read on...
*I'm raising my 6yr old grandchild (for now) so if small ones are an issue..Here's your chance to run, lol
*I'm a thick sistah & I love every single bit of me, so please don't contact me with your weight loss plan. I'm not interested in anyone seeking to change me physically.
*I don’t care for outdoors activities. The sun/heat makes me sick, literally. I prefer dinner, movies, plays, concerts. I like dominoes & cards(even if I stink @ both).
*I'm extremely loyal,faithful&supportive to the important folks in my life. I Love hard and give my all to any relationship and at this point in my life I require the same from a man.
*I'm Always honest cuz I'm 2 old 2 be trying keep up with a lie, so I just don't bother with them.
*I like things simple. A meal at Taco Bell works just as good as one in a fancy restaurant. I don’t need material things to show me that you’re interested; however, the baby DIVA in me craves your time & attention. Important notice---I won't chase you, so if you stop communicating, so will I !!!--
*I like to laugh & if you can make me do that ure already off to a good start. I try to surround myself with people who know how NOT to take things too seriously all the time & just be "Breezy" & have a good time. Did I mention that I am Beautiful, both inside and out?
My Ideal man...
*Is a Real grown azz MAN able 2 take charge & be the “MAN” in the relationship. Not the kind of man the rap songs have taught our young men 2 be but the kind of “REAL MAN” my mom & grandma had the pleasure of knowing.
*Gotta be able to handle **bizness** when the time comes, both IN & OUT of the bedroom.
*He has his own place. is wife/girlfriend/babymoma-drama-free, & absolutely drug-free,not even the herb fellas.
*Needs to be..employed..Doesn’t matter how much he makes just don't be asking me for gas money.
*Should probably cook, cuz I'm really not that good at it, but I will make sure he's fed if he can't manage to feed himself..LOL.
*Is capable of faithfulness, monogamy, loyalty,etc etc..get the picture?? I don't want to share.
*Brothers, if u got a history of using a woman for a punching bag, go ahead & DISMISS urself quietly now please.
*Biggest pet peeve???... Judgemental people... if you don't think your s**t stink...smell again!!
Lookin 4 a booty call?? STOP..TURN AROUND..GO BACK OUT THE DOOR..Please keep looking!! This is NOT the stop for U!! You’re Not getting none till I’m ready, so why waste your time if you just “browsing for booty”?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I like the classic dinner & perhaps a movie. Comedy shows work too! Again Please don't invite me to your crib or ask to come to mine so we can "get to know each other" too soon... dang babe I already let you off the hook and said I'll take Taco Bell, if you can't afford that then you shouldn't be tryin to date anyway. Besides that's a surefire way to get the boot, afterall I already said, I need a MAN not a boy, boys want the "Now" but Real men don't mind working a little to get the "Forever".
Thanks for stopping by!! Blessings to you all!!