I'm a single man who is looking for a long term relationship and ultimately that partner to settle down with. Why am I pushing 40 and single, you might ask? Well that's simple. I guess I haven't met the right one. Let me take that back...I've met several women in my years of dating that were great matches. But, however, I run into the same cycle of hitting it off. Then, thinking everything is good, I miss subtle indirect signals given out by whoever I'm dating, or getting to know, and things end abruptly. I'm all for taking things a steady pace and putting in the right amount of time and effort for getting to know someone. But here's the thing...please be direct with me. I'll listen. But I'm not a mind reader. Apparently, I miss signal after signal and that leads to confusion which leads to some great women I've met in the past falling off the face of the earth. I have a full and happy life. But I'm looking for that right woman to add to what I already have. But things take time. So, if we connect and have chemistry, and we are on the same page, maybe we can both invest the time to see where this can go.