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If you're not serious about who you are or what you want, don't message me. I'm quite confident in who I am, what I am, and I know my value completely. I'm done with games, liars, and weird ass people. Give me some real. Give me susbstance. Challenge me, for christ's sake.
I'm back again to give this another shot because I'm recently single and I'm quite done with picking losers. Jamez (said like James) is the name, and blocking off all bullsh*tis my game. 28 year old ex-martial artist with a vast amount of interest. I pride myself on strength and integrity and recently, my ability to overcome the non-sense has grown. (I.E. If you about that bullshit, ill know immediately.) Far from your typical male specimen. I take care of home, and I'm one of the most caring people I know. That being said, I'm not easy to read, but am easy to talk to and I have a brain. (Yes ladies, some men do use them.)
Interests: Im truly invested into music. Sing it, rap it, write it. Sports, video games, reading, and lifting has been my focus lately but I want that one woman to make me feel complete. The one that makes me feel whole again. Yes, I said want, not need. I'm no stranger to being alone and being content. I just feel like my life is meant to be shared. Someone is supposed to be a part of me, and vice versa for them. Someone coined this but I had to steal it. I'm looking for a "one life stand" regardless of the fact that it starts with friends first. If you don't know what that means, I may not be the best choice for you.
Quick Bio: 28, no kids, no maybes. Employed and a student at national college. (As well as making things happen on other fronts). Recently decided to re-sign with Media 8 productions just to do my own music.(don't really care if I make it big. I do it to please myself.) Originally from Cleveland, by now live in the Youngstown/Niles area. Born with true grit, the ability to be precise, and the want to be someones true partner, shoulder, best friend, and lover. Ive cut all ties to the drama and I'm open for a new friend, or more.
Likes: money, music, video games, sports, singing, relaxing with good friends, or hell, even getting Buck at the bar with em. Board games, books, reminiscing on my mom who died a Lil over a year ago (R.I.P. Mom dukes May 7th 2011) cooking and some good laughs.
Hates: I hate fakes, liars, people who chew with their mouth wide open, people who talk big but aren't the least bit scary or threatening, people who take advantage of peoples kindness, those who have no motivation, chicks who cry about handling their business because they're used to everyone doing it for them, people who steal, especially from their own blood, cheaters in all senses. (Relationships, or whatever else)
Through trials and tribulations, I have come to realize how much i do truly love myself. Any woman that i consider, would have to love themself just the same, as well as, posess the ability to love another with the same veracity. Its not too much to ask, I would have to wager, so i'm attempting to see if thats true. On another note, i give as much respect as i'm given. Same with love, and trust. I've been through too much in the last few years to settle for anything other. Case in point, be honest with yourself, to the highest degree, before you are honest with someone else. Especially me, because thats exactly what i'm going to give you. Real. 100% uncut.
Listen, I'm not here for games, or just looking for sex. If I just wanted to get my rocks off, I'm a decent enough looking dude, I can make that happen. I want that beauty and brains combo that we can both enjoy from each other.
If you like what you see and want to know more, by all means, drop me a line. You'll never know me, til you try me. :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm pretty simple. Drinks, dinner, a movie, or something absolutely different. I'm up for some fun so let's do somethin we both enjoy, ya dig?
Sidenote: If I actually take time out to message or favorite you, its because I actually took the time out to read up and value what you said. I'm not easy. I'm not fake. So give me that same respect.