Age: 58
Long term
Cotter: Smart, romantic, adventurous men are my type.
Non-smoker with Average body type
Columbus, Ohio
65 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Aries with Mixed color hair
Cotter wants to find someone to marry
Associates degree
I'm a nurse.

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Second Language German  

About Me

GO --- POLAR --- BEARS!!!!

By the way ... The Columbus Zoo is now home to two (sister) female polar bears. The Arctic Frontier is now open (as of May 6, 2010).
UPDATE ... we now have a male polar bear in with the girls ... and hopefully they will have some young bears in the near future!


One of my hobbies is singing ... in fact it's one of my favorite things to do, but I also enjoy dancing. I have been a Western Style Square Dancer for about 45 years (okay, I was not quite 20 years old when I started dancing) and also do cued ballroom dancing. My singing involves my participation in a local German club and just for fun ... Karaoke.

I have a mountain bike that I enjoy riding ... and my first outing is scheduled in May. I'll also be helping out with the TOSRV bike tour on Mother's Day this year ... no matter, my daughter and grandson will be with me ... so I've got my Mother's Day planned!

I'm a Grandma. "OMA" ("Grandma" in German) is what he calls me. I have an open invitation to pick him up as often as I want and while I can't do it all that often, I do enjoy taking him to the Zoo and we also like to go swimming at the water park connected to the Zoo. In summer, a trip to the Zoo always includes time at the water park with "Oma" going down the tubes, slides and then playing in the "Lazy River" and the "Wave Pool". (I guess I'm kinda active for my age ... sigh.)

The terminology of dating websites :
"Intimate Encounter," ... of course, means you're looking for wild, no-holds-barred monkey sex.
"Activity Partner" ... means especially energetic sex, usually after intense physical workouts.
"Hang Out" ... means sex, followed by dinner and/or a movie.
"Dating" ... means the man pays for the after-sex dinner and/or movie.
"Talk/Email" ... means online or phone sex preceding actual sex.
"Other" ... usually means some kind of kinky sex.
"Long Term" ... means having sex on a routine basis, with or without dinner and/or movie.
"Friends" ... means he's probably gay.
(I hope this helps clear up any confusion.)

This just in ... borrowed from another poster with her permission!
**Must not think smoking dope doesn't count as 'drugs'
**Must not send introductory email subject line: "Ya wanna?"
**Must not laugh out loud when I sing along to the radio.
Will try to think of more and add them.

Just got this from my daughter ...
I will not be any man's ... "half"-time ... "down"-time ... "spare"-time ... or "sometimes". If that's what you want ...don't waste my time.

First Date
Suggest something ... open to ideas and something different than just go get a drink!

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Testimonials from Cotter's favorites list
hairy_aloeI could wax lyrically about Cotter for hours and hours. She is fun to be with, open and generous, infectious laugher - once she starts you off, you can’t stop until after passing out, Cotter is the life of the party and knows how to draw the more shy into conversation which with Cotter is never dull or pointless. In short, Cotter is one in a million, shame we live so far apart.

Yes, Cotter is wonderous in so many ways . a gem and a treasure chest of talents and caring. She is way up there on the evolutionary ladder of love and understanding. She does not look down from the heights of love, but pulls others up with her wit, intelligence, humor, deep & natural wisdom, songs, dance, unbelievable good cooking, and charms galore. Though modest in not showing off her wisdom, she will also gently call a spade a spade, or subtly let someone know they are a being a big baby. She has a tool box with literally everything in it, and she knows how to build, makes flowers bloom in gardens, makes her own dance outfits, and keeps all her belongings in top shape. Cotter has taken family challenges and ( not seeing herself as religious ) has mixed joy and sorrow in the crucible of her lovely being and has grown to be of exemplary good character. She is ALL HEART..!! She's the cake & the frosting, and a walking/dancing, talking/singing, sharing of gifts to all. LOVE to her.

One of the first to welcome me back...hugs! Cotter is a genuine sweetheart,and even though we don't know each other all too well yet,I know we'll become great friends!Everyone loves her,and for good reason..she's kind,smart,and has a terrific sense of humour!

'cotter' is witty, smart, provoking, yet patient and most of all - kind to all. Adversities she encountered ... yes, made this remarkable lady only stronger and she still carries herself with grace and smile. My admiration to her. Her inner strengths and spirit shine throughout. Don't worry gentlemen if you're not good dancers; she will keep you in the rythm and grounded too :-D

Cotter is a dear lady, we made fast friends, I so admire and treasure her. She's so brave, smart, warm and loving. She's been so close to me I love her bunches. And to top it off, what a sense of humor. This lady has an amazing spirit, warm heart any man lucky enough to spend time with her would no doubt find her unforgettable. To update this, I both met cotter and some other POF friends recently. She is exactly the same in person, if not more so. A warm, wonderful lady, it was great to be able to finally get to hug her. She has the most infectious laugh, her eyes just sparkle with energy. It was a true delight to spend time with her, look forward to doing it again.