i'm not much into the club/ bar scene these days. since i've hit my 30's i can't hang like i used to :( i don't classify myself butch or femme. i am who i am. if you get to know me--i'm sure you'll agree. i would like to meet someone who has a good head on their shoulders. someone who is driven and established. someone who is inspired and can inspire. someone who is independent and responsible. for me it's not necessarily how old you are--it's your maturity level.
i prefer not to physically act on emotions on the first date, even if you have my interest. the farthest i'll go is a kiss-- cause i believe if there is a mutual attraction, all that stuff is worth waiting for. i don't give myself to just anyone--and i would prefer someone who holds the same moral values.