I'm looking for exceptional chemistry, where personalities compliment each others well, and our values, goals and lifestyles are compatible. I'm a friends first type of person. Ideally, I'd like someone who is caring, kind, affectionate, honest, intelligent, has integrity, confident but not conceited, isn't afraid to speak his mind but isn't rude or obnoxious either, someone who knows that no one is perfect but tries to live his life trying to be the best person he can be.
Although my goal is a long term relationship with the right person, I'm not looking to jump into anything without taking the time to know the person first. Life is too short to be unhappy and I have made a conscious choice to surround myself with happy, positive, enlightened, creative, fun people.
I'm 48, not 40 (cant update age on this site for some reason) My kids are both over 18. If you have kids that's great I love kids, I don't plan on having more of my own.
Not a huge sports fan but I do like X Games dirt bikes, motocross, skateboarding, snowboarding, wakeboarding and surfing competition events Mavericks
As far as music goes, I like Reggae, Music Festivals, Stick Figure, Bob Marley, Bassnectar, Michael Franti, Ben Harper..
Communication, Common Sense & Chemistry
Mutual respect, honesty, trust, loyalty and appreciation.
I'd like to meet someone who is:
-Genuine *inspiring* *passionate about life, cooking, love, beauty in the world, humanity*
-Intelligent and has good communication skills.
-Confident, comfortable and considerate (without being arrogant or conceited)
-Integrity, someone whose actions are in sync with their words
-Someone who enjoys good food and making a nice meal together occasionally
Maybe someone who's a little oldskool in their values, someone who knows your word means everything, puts family first, someone who conducts himself respectfully in all situations but likes to have fun, enjoy life and laugh as well
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something simple, a coffee meet n greet