I believe we are spirits having a human experience, NOT humans having a spiritual experience.
One of my interests is motorcycling. I like traveling California and the US, checking out historical and out of the way places. I have seen the Grand Canyon, Yellowstone, Mt. Rushmore, Carlsbad caverns in New Mexico to name a few. I am realistic, reliable, sufficient and self supporting.
My Ideal Person:
The person who walks a path with me will be proud to have me by his side and not hide me as a secret or hold me on a pedestal to be all alone. I want an even balance. Someone to walk by my side, hand in hand, arm in arm, not in front or behind me, on a path we choose together. I will gladly share all that I have, happiness, sadness, joy, family, material things, dreams, spirituality and most of all myself.
The person I let into my life should be spiritual and go with the flow of life. That is not to say he should not have his own path planed. Some qualities I look for are; gentleness in his ways and in his touch, honesty, fidelity, compassion, playfulness, adventuresome, independent. Be a man of your word so I can trust what you say and count on it. The man I choose will not try to break my spirit but encourage it so I may soar above the clouds.
A first date should be in a public place but private enough to be able to look into your eyes and to talk honestly about ourselves. Maybe a small bite to eat, a walk, and more talking.