I am updating my profile (04/19/2013).(PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE ON YOUR PROFILE IF YOU WANT A REPLY FROM ME...AFTER ALL..YOU CAN SEE ME..I WANT SEE WHO I'M REPLYING TOO...THAT'S FAIR DON'T YOU THINK?)
Some of you ask me why I am retired at the age of 48. In actuality, I am 'Self-Employed'. The reason I said my occupation was 'Retired' was because I had a stroke at the age of 43. I have recoved 80 to 90% after being in rehabilitation for approx. 1 year. I have my own lawn care business and I take pride in perfection at my work, as well as everything I do in life.
Most women on this site are looking for material items, cash on hand, etc. I am looking for a woman who is not a sugar momma (lol) as I can take care of myself. I am a very caring and easy-going man, who would treasure his lady in every aspect of the word....i.e. giving her flowers for no reason at all just to say I love you, draw her a warm bath with candles and a gentle back massage afterwards. I love to cook for the one I love or we can do it together. These are just a few things that I would do for her...........and not just on a one time occurance, but on a regular basis. I have a soft heart and would love to find someone who shares the same.
No one is perfect in this world and we all have faults. I will be the first to tell you. One of my biggest faults (which is not really a fault, but a slight imperpection) is since having the stroke, my teeth are not perfect. I am in the process of getting this taken care of. It will take a few months to get this handled, but it will be done. This is something I can take care of myself. Please do not let this deter you from emailing me and getting to know the "real" me.
All I ask from a woman is honesty..........whether it be good or bad. Do not worry about hurting my feelings in this respect. Honesty is a major part of a relationship and I will always be honest with you.
If you would like to talk, please have a current picture and send me a message/email. I will respond even though I am not a Featured Member.
Thank you for reading a little bit about me. (There is more to me than what is written above.)
I'm 53 yrs, 6'tall, 180 lbs, Salt and Pepper hair cut short with a beard. I have lived in and around Savannah, Ga. all my life. I was married for 21 yrs and got divorced in 2001. I have been dating since then...but..now I'm ready to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with. I am honest and don't lie....I will tell you the truth even if it hurts. And I expect the same from you. I can take the truth better than I can take a lie. The truth may hurt for a little while..but I'll get over it...and be a better person...but lie to me...and I will never forget it.
So what I'm looking is...A woman that don't lie..no matter what. One that likes the outdoors or just going for a walk in the woods or beach. One that can cook...as I like to cook too. She dosen't like to argue...but sometimes you will and not hold a grudge...and niether will I. Any relationship has it's good and bad points...I'm looking for one that has more good that bad points..( 75% good to 25% bad )
I'm not hard to get along with. I'm a easy going kinda guy. Just tired of all the B.S. and the lies.
Oh yea...the woman that I love with my heart will get spoiled. Like getting flowers for no reason but to say " I love you " or a cooked dinner at home by me, or a hot bath with candles on the tub...things like that..
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Well on the first date...I would find out what you would like to do. Like I said..I'm easy to get along with. Then I would tell you what I would like to do. Then we can decide on what to do or where to go together. I was taught by my grandmother from the country to respect a woman and she will respect you. But even if you want me to plan the date...I will still find out your likes and dislikes before we go out.
And for all you woman that like being independent...I like that in a woman..but like I said my grandmother raised my to respect a woman...so don't get mad when I open the car door for you or any door for that matter...that's just the way I am.