I really dont understand the pof geography algorithm....Detroit metro and PGH are NOT within a 35mi radius of CLE. so why do i keep getting suggestions from those areas? and htf does anything west virgina or canada fall into that range?, was there an earthquake i slept thru?
The following escaping thoughts are from a misguided romantic optimist....pay no attention. if you're the adventurous type, my kik is the same username.
im a little deep, a little geeky, a little quirky, a little sentimental, a little conservative, a little goofy, a lot of shy, a lot of loyal and a LOT of guarded. specialist of the lame question. my sense of humor is warped and sarcasm is my second language.
socially non-aggressive. very respecting of another's wishes, especially your privacy. i wont inject myself where i am not wanted. i wont stay where i am not welcomed.
i'm not the most social of people....i'm an introvert which makes me a people watcher by nature. i dont date a lot and i work too much.
go ahead and say it...i know youre thinking it.....call me a dork and get it over with. im a big boy and could care less what a stranger thinks of me. dont get on me because of my negative attitude....it's the realist vs the romantic optimist....guess what side is winning.
my hobbies are varied and diverse. not gonna write a book....i have to leave something for you to inquire about.
Ok..on the practical side, what 5 items you could put in a hiker's backpack would you take if you had to be stranded for a period of time and what place would you choose to be stranded....desert, mountains, island, etc.
your looks may capture my attention but your heart will capture my devotion.
qualities that are attractive to me:
shared hobbies and not averse to learning something new/teaching a new one.
proportional body and barbie is not anywhere close to my definition of proportional
longer hair....just not a fan of the pixie cut
strong but not over-bearing personality
smart...yes, there are some of us guys that think smart is sexy
patience and understanding
personally responsible and accountable
i dont care what your personal politics are but if you feel like everyone owes you something and it always has to be someone else's fault.....we wont get along.
i have to clarify a 'no drama' definition. i see it with those i work with and it goes both ways. if you cannot be civil with your ex/exes i dont want to deal with it. so many times i hear that the ex, generally a female, is burning a path to/has on speed dial child services or the courthouse to work an angle to get more money or strong arm the other into more money. not gettin involved with that stuff or those that play that game. i AM NOT and WILL NOT find myself in a courtroom or orange jumpsuit over these shenanigans. your ex is not your retirement plan, piggy bank or punching bag (literally or figuratively). be a grown up, take responsibility for you and your actions as well as your choices in life. remember, you at one time, pledged never ending love for this person and willfully offered yourself to them physically, emotionally and spiritually. and that my dear, is the 'no drama' some of us refer to.
oh that lovely conversation of 'body type'. some of you ladies that list yourselves as 'a few extra pounds' look damn good.....smokin hot good. a few extra pounds where and what is your criteria? fyi, marilynn monroe would be called fat by today's standards and if so, i will take her 'fatness'. on the other end of the spectrum, some of you that say 'average' are trying to do the bait and switch because if i was to say my body type is 'average', i would be 7ft 8. i know i'm not the picture off the cover of men's health but i'm also not overflowing like the before pic of a biggest loser contestant. be honest with your opinion. waif-like is not attractive to me and momma june isnt attractive to me either. you wanted honesty, here it is.