ok.....since im workin what seems like 6 and a half days a week, im going to take a dating sabbatical.....if you want to believe that, i dont care.
why? if i dont have time for myself, it isnt right or fair to another person or their time.
yes, i would like to start off as friends and progress slowly with mutual understanding of crazy schedules. i know that doesnt sound all that positive but if the only 'me' time is sleeping and a shower, a healthy relationship is out of the question.
the quick read.....social misfit, doesnt play well with others, strong willed, indifferent and sarcastic.
that didnt hurt, did it?
still here?, then proceed at will.....
guarded introvert with an attitude...emphasis on the 'guarded'
practical with a macguyver streak
a warped sense of humor
subtle like a sledge hammer
very rarely do i make first contact. why?, i dont consider a one way conversation a form of productive socializing.
strong but not over-bearing personality
outdoorsy but not the tree/bunny hugger type....think mossy oak.
maoi free...you have your criteria, i have mine.
smart...yes, there are some of us guys that think smart is sexy
patience and understanding
non-smoker a must. non-negotiable.
personally responsible and accountable
functional sense of humor with an appreciation of self-deprecating humor.
as i get older im beginning to slow down and enjoy the simpler, less complicated things in life. would like to find someone of like mind and isnt an alcohol powered drama factory.
as mentioned above, i am very guarded. my walls come down SLOW and go up VERY fast. sorry i am that way but not all of you are sugar and spice. for that reason the good ones out there have to suffer for it.
on the bright side, i am not a skirt chaser and you wont find me in the nudie bars. i work 3rds by choice and doesnt interfere with my social life.