i say please and thank you, sir and ma'am at the drive thrus and counters....because courtesy goes both ways.
if you think my listed occupation is what i do then you dont have the sense of humor i would appreciate. have a nice day and enjoy your life.
i'm a dork. i'm socially awkward. i am not comfortable breaking the ice with a stranger. not comfortable in new places with new people. new people in comfy place, ok. new place with familiar people, ok but still guarded. i do not stay where i am not welcomed and i will not compete for your attention. i'm not a serial dater and not trying to live out my inner charlie sheen.
i am many things. one is being a realist. i would surely love to find my happily ever after but my realist side just pulled a muscle from laughing. i speak flowing sarcasm and am often the butt of my own jokes.
here's the bad. i dont play well with others. i'm unfiltered most of the time and have no problem thinking out loud. my BS detector is on max sensitivity. my walls are high, thick and deep. i dont bounce back very fast. i've been dragged to the deep end and left there. yes girls, it happens to us guys too. i am guarded and skeptical. it takes me a LONG while to warm up to new people. you need a thick skin. ive spoken to some that said they did and well, not as thick as they claimed.
your approval of me doesnt validate my existence. i know who i am and what i am.....a workaholic loner. i am not content with being long term single but i have accepted it. maybe i'm just good at being single and missed that memo.
what do i find attractive? sarcasm, brains but not to the point of condescending. easy on the eyes. body type....proportional. enjoying the simple of life. going to the shooting range, camping, campfires, local history....things that expand my smart bank. fishing and hunting.....oh hell...make it a quick read, a tomboy that cleans up nicely. i guess city girls just dont get it.
the typical dinner date to get to know each other a little better would be a good start. no sense in doing an activity that one of us just doesnt like and faking it. most of the women that interest me have an appetite to some degree. i must warn you, for me, dressing up is dockers and a polo shirt/henley.
No dancing....to say I'm a horrible dancer would be a HUGE compliment. i dance like the guy in the 'lonely boy' video on a good night.