civildv8: Jane!, stop this crazy thing
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
North ridgeville, Ohio
50 year old Male, 5' 8" (173cm), Catholic
Caucasian, Libra
civildv8 is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Blue Collar
better if you ask

not a kodak kinda guy but i try

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat Second Language Other

About David

you can pick your friends, you can pick your butt, but you cant pick your friend's butt....if you can, that's just weird.

first and foremost, i like guns, i hunt, i fish, i camp, i'm retired navy and i sure as hell dont follow the herd. if any or all of these activities triggered you, just move on. you run or go to the gym....i go to the range/woods/lake/campground.

i AM the classic introvert. want the specific personality quirks?, look it up.

should i contact you first, expect it to be awkward at best and clumsy at worst. if you decide that i am not worth conversing with, you wont have to worry about me harassing you. admission of guilt; just messaging you in the first place makes me feel like i bothered you and i just dont like feeling that way. i dont date often and i dont serial date. i'm fairly 'keep to myself-ish' and generally dont make the first move. i can manage life being self-reliant but let's be is just better when you share in it's experiences.

second.....i'm really not good at the dating thing. not that i'm a bad person or some sort of degenerate, i just dont have good people skills. not good with new people in new places. good guy, good heart just bad people skills. in theory, there's someone for everyone, so i'm still trying to prove/disprove that. your first impression of me will be that i'm stand-offish. it's a defense mechanism. it keeps new people at arm's length till i can process the whole 'newness' and keeps things at my pace.

let's be real, i know i am not anyone's plan a, plan b, or even plan j. i'm not even on your radar at 2am and i'm good with that. i'm not looking to please or appeal to everyone; just THE ONE. she will understand what i am trying to say. she will be patient and understanding. nurturing and supportive. she will be as much a friend as she will a companion. she will enjoy many of my activities as well as introducing me to some new adventures.

i am seeing that people dont like it when you treat them the same in return. in general, i am a giving person after i warm to you. i give way more than i ask for but dont take advantage of my generosity.

now that i have thinned the herd by 99 & 44/100%, those that are still here, please continue.

what type am i looking for?.....tough to describe but she would be a mix of Nicole Curtis, Jessi Combs, Kari Byron and Shemane Nugent. yeah, i might have to do some googling but you'll understand. here, i'll save you some work...a tomboy that cleans up nicely. i like a strong woman...not power lifter/gym rat type but mentally. we all have our ups&downs and sometimes i need someone to be strong for me when i dont think i can.

some things i find attractive in women: eyes, hair, sense of humor, sense of humility, confidence, simplicity, strength of will but not over-imposing, tenacity, and patience.

i have no crazy ex's you need to worry about and i refuse deal with yours.

i'm not a drinker nor do i try to find the answer to my problems or slay my demons with a bottle. i do enjoy my rum&cokes but not at any regularity.

if you find yourself on my favorites, it's because i saw something in your profile that appealed to me. it's a shy introvert's misguided way of trying to break the ice. if i message you, it's for the same reason as adding you to my favs, i just got a little braver that time.

if you write to me and i dont reply, i must say thank you, but i am not interested. i do not respond to a 'hi' or a 'hey there'. those are too much like a robocall from the site. please be a tad more vocal.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
the typical dinner date to get to know each other a little better would be a good start. no sense in doing an activity that one of us just doesnt like and faking it. most of the women that interest me have an appetite to some degree. i must warn you, for me, dressing up is dockers and a polo shirt/henley.

it's summer and work has slowed down some (maybe good, maybe bad). pizza or chinese takeout and a drive-in sound ok? no?, campfire grilled steaks and grilled corn with fire pies for dessert sound better?

No say I'm a horrible dancer would be a HUGE compliment. i dance like the guy in the 'lonely boy' video on a good night and LOTS of alcohol. jello has more rhythm.

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