If you're interested, don't drop the ball...I mean fish... I have no problem making the initial contact (text/talk). However, I will not be in a one-sided relationship with no reciprocity and I would expect you to make the next call/text. With that being said: Hello, I am an attractive 54 year old, mature, intelligent,honest, responsible and committed woman. I am seeking same in male. I would like to talk on the phone and eventually meet in person for a cup of coffee. I am not into bars and crowded places. Sorry, I am not into "Harley Dudes" as well. Also, if you are a smoker--date a dragon. I am looking for one person to build a relationship with based on trust and friendship first. If your agenda is different, "save your breath, you will need it to blow up your girlfriend". If you are looking for a relationship to run its course in a day and a half, I am not the person for you...If you cannot commit to a phone call, I am not the person for you...If you are not willing to participate in growing the relationship by putting forth energy and interest, I am not the person for you... I like to stay active and I am a hard-worker. I will tell you more when we exchange numbers rather than email endlessly. Please...no married or creeps, jerks, or douchebags... thanks and good luck.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would like to talk somewhat at first on the phone. We could always meet for coffee at some point. I think this would be appropriate for a first date.