Looking for a strong minded man age between 39-50. Must be my height and/ or taller and enjoy going out or staying home. I enjoy drinking ( he must too or at least be okay with it) and I do smoke when I drink ( but I'm in the middle of quitting-yep I'm a quitter....lol). Must be okay with that, tho. I do have a taste for white men. I would like to find a man to built a friendship with first and see where it leads...must want to talk on phone eventually. I'm old-fashion and I see myself as a sweet loving woman with a badgirl personality. I prefer a man to be in control (Dom) yet know when to pass it to me. I was with an alfa male for many years and I was treated well til he died a year ago, so I already know what kind of man would hold my interest. I'm looking for the next half of my life. Not a ONS! I'm a loving and faithful woman and my heart will only allow me to invest in a good man. Are you him?