I'm a jeans and sweatshirt type single country gal who's looking for chemistry...when you've experienced it before, it's hard to settle for less. It's not all about looks either, but physical attraction is definitely a part of it. Attitude is HUGE... a positive one that is! I tend to always look at the bright side of things, and prefer to be around positive people. My closet is not full of high heels or dresses, but I can dust off some of the above if the occasion arises. I'm not into a ton of makeup, or spending an hour "getting ready" to go out. However, make no mistake, I "polish up ok" I've been told.
I have a physically demanding country lifestyle which keeps me young, "work" at activities that I have passion for, and enjoy life to the fullest. Deep down I'm a hopeless romantic, and very affectionate. I'm an honest, straight-forward, yet non-judgemental, gentle (yet open & direct) communicator, & am open to the idea of a possible "relationship". Ideally this would begin with a good friendship, established by taking some time (several months?) to get to know each other. Also, since I've been described as "fiercely independent & self-sufficient", I'm not looking to be "rescued, saved or put on a pedestal". I'd like to find someone who's passionate about life, not just behind closed doors... someone who has interests, hobbies, activities of their own, & the enthusiasm & energy within themselves to enjoy them... someone who doesn't expect their partner to provide their happiness. Happiness only lasts when it comes from within oneself.
I've not considered marriage as the only "end result" of a great relationship, and so, have never married. Having said that, I have had caring, committed and fondly-remembered relationships in the past, & always strongly believed chemistry is the glue that bonds two people through the tough times...I'm a self-confident person, who is not afraid to ask for what I want.
I've never been a "religious" person, and think that "spiritual" is a more appropriate word for me. I'm a HUGE believer in "The Secret", and have watched, learned, applied and reaped the benefits countless times. It's sure worth the hour and a half to watch it, more than once. Afterall, I agree repetition is the key to learning. I live each day with an "attitude of gratitude" and also enjoy "paying it forward"...
I'm looking for a NON-SMOKER If you smoke AT ALL, even "occasionally", please click onwards. That includes ANY kind of smoking, "legal or not" shall we say...
I'm seeking a guy who really is ACTIVE in the outdoors, and absolutely prefers the country to the city!! Appreciation & respect for animals are a must, and it'd be great, yet not essential, if you consider fitness a lifestyle, and not a sporadic chore! I teach "aerobics in the water", so I get PAID to work out! BONUS! In addition, I usually work outside all day, MOST days, yet do make time for "down time"... a nice quiet bonfire with a bottle of wine, or a movie on TV snuggled on the couch... not to be confused with a "couch potato". We're very different vegetables!
A sense of humour is extremely important (mandatory actually I have decided!) to me as well, I have learned. Life can be too short to take ourselves too seriously. To laugh a little...it's good for both body and soul they say. I'd like to find a man I could talk to about my goals, my dreams, my fears... & naturally reciprocate, to hear & listen to yours...
If there really is such a needle out there in this haystack of life, then please contact me... of course, the above is "ideal" and none of us are "ideal"... so if you're not a total couch potato, or a smoker (YUCK!) and I haven't scared you off with my pro-active search, then let me know? I will answer each message respectfully...
Although my photos have dogs in them, my life has not exclusively "gone to the dogs" ... Even though MY "kids" have 4 legs, I do enjoy the 2-legged variety too!
Ok, so if you've actually read THIS far, wow, you need to get out more! Seriously though, I think you'll have a pretty good idea of "where I'm coming from" by now, and you'll either be interested, or not. Either way is fine. Message me, or click onwards. After all, there are "plenty of fish" out there for all of us. May you find your "out of the ordinary" person you are seeking...
First dates are charged with expectant energy... the worst that can happen is that both of us will walk away having met another interesting person. The best, most rare, and truely sought-after is... knowing that MUTUAL chemistry exists, and there's a definite potential to want to get to know one another.
A coffee, a meal, at a quiet, yet public place somewhere where we can talk and share life's experiences... get to know each other a little.
I believe we'll know that it's either "THERE", or it isn't...no worries either way! If it's "there", great, but if it's not, it's best to be honest. One-sided relationships lead to broken hearts. Best to lay the cards on the table I believe. if you're interested, let the person know. If you're not, then let them go...with respect
Second date might be "his & hers" chainsaws, and a fallen maple? Just kidding! LOL...I really AM a country gal...
Did you know?
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