What are we all here for? Some of us just want a hook up. Others want a meaningful relationship. Some want to find their soul mate.
I can go on and on about all of this. Yet many make their first impression on how a person looks and will not scroll down to the profile.
What I want and have wanted is a meaningful and committed relationship. I want someone to push me to my limits and show me who they truly are. Words only go so far, but actions will show me who you truly are. Mind games and hookups ended in high school. Trying to be perfect and look perfect does not interest me. I try and stay away from five types of people. Fakes, liars, cheaters, druggies, and manipulators.
We all have problems and skeletons in our closet. I know I do, because I am in no way perfect. If you want a guy that is perfect and that has a perfect body, well bye. I am real and I always have been. I am not going to change unless it is for the better.
I love kids, but have not had the chance to have my own. This is of course a very sore topic with my parents since I am an only child :-)
I have worked very hard for the things I have and also know the taste of defeat. I am a humble man that does not seek joy in belittling others for amusement.
All I can say is I am a nice person, but I have my moments of course. Like I said, I am not perfect.
The perfect match for me would be someone that shares the same interests as myself and wants an adult relationship. Someone committed when they are with someone. A person that enjoys time spent together and enjoys the little things in life. Realizes every relationship takes work to make that relationship worth a damn.