Hello! I'm trying out this site again after getting out of a relationship a few months ago. I just recently obtained my associates degree and am currently a full time student at MSU pursuing my bachelors degree in Marketing. I am a native to California but have been back here since 2001. I am a very independent and self sufficient woman, which i have found men back here don't seem to care for. Sorry, but if you are looking for a needy and clingy dingbat girl that spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready everyday that will fawn over your every word, please move on. I am no princess, nor do i act as one. I can be a woman when i want as well as just one of the guys. I am looking for someone that can handle my sarcasm and crazy sense of humor and that can share an interesting personality of their own with me. I would like to be able to carry on a conversation without have to pause and refer to a dictionary because you don't understand a big word i just used. There has to be a physical attraction so your picture is going to matter as well as your message to me.
I enjoy i variety of hobbies but don't really seem to have a lot of time lately to do them between work and school. I have found through my trolling on this site that the men tend to voice what they don't want in a woman. I believe in gender equality, so i'm going to voice my preferences as well. If you hang dead animals on your walls, hold your fork like a shovel, are a felon, still live at home or are "crashing at a friends pad",have dated your sister, are the butt of any redneck jokes, are hugely obese, think it's awesome to wear mismatched camouflage to a special event, think race car driving is a sport, or like to use bad grammar, e.g; " yu-uns " and " I ain't got none", then please move on because we can never be. I'm sorry if all this sounds crass and makes me sound like a not so nice person, but why waste the time with what i know i don't want when life is too short to just settle. If this is not what you're looking for then please move on. I'm sure the girl right under me, who has taken one of those "look at my cleavage" shots with her phone, will be more than happy to go get a message from you.
First dates are awkward, its really the second date i think that does it for you, but if i had to say i would probably meet for some coffee or hot chocolate.
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