I want to mention a few important points first so as to save time for some people.
1. I'm not interested in long-distance contacts, so LOCAL responses only within 40 miles, please.
2. I don't date women who are butch, married, bisexual or have young children living at home.
3. Replies like "Hey there", "Send me a pic" or "I like your profile" will be deleted, so if you're interested in responding, please write something at least semi-intelligent that has some substance and will grab my attention. It CAN be done! :-)
4. I don't have my photo here for privacy reasons, but I can share one privately if we connect....and I promise not to scare you! LOL
Greetings, ladies. I am here seeking that unique and mystical connection with ONE woman; someone to strike a spark with, get to know and hopefully develop a loving and committed relationship with eventually, if all the planets and stars are properly aligned. :-)
I am a very REAL, no-nonsense, gay, single woman who is secure, independent, cultured, level-headed, well-rounded, assertive, intelligent, with no children, no problems, zero drama, healthy, spiritual and I'm a fool for romance! My friends would describe me as outgoing/sociable/friendly, intense, passionate, witty, caring, affectionate, easygoing and fun-loving. I am told I look much younger, perhaps because of my youthful spirit and good genes. :-) I am blessed with great friends and a good, stable and happy life which I enjoy as much as possible, but having someone special with whom to share it would make it even better; a loyal friend, companion and lover. Basically, I have my cake but don't have the icing. :-( I am grateful for all that I have, I use my experiences as teachers to learn and grow, and I strive to be a better person every day. I am Cuban (white) and I'm passionate about music, love salsa dancing, movies, travel, road trips for a day or a weekend, get-togethers with friends and great conversation. I am a social drinker, don't smoke or use any drugs and want the same. By the way, I love romance and kissing...slow, long, soft, wet, passionate kisses....the kind that excite the body and satisfy the soul! I really miss having romantic companionship and that unique, special connection with someone to make plans and have fun with, travel and share all kinds of life experiences; somebody who can make me smile just from thinking about her, will put a twinkle in my eye and make my heart skip a beat when I see her!
I'd like to meet a woman who wants to share love, respect and honesty in a relationship. I seek true romance with a true partner; that special connection, chemistry and companionship with a woman who is not about games, drama or BS; someone who means what she says and says what she means, because I do. Traditionally, my relationships have been with Hispanic women (my main preference), but I am open to meeting the right Anglo woman, especially if she is a Spanish speaker. She should be 40-57 years young, on the feminine side and is at a relatively happy and peaceful place in her life. She should be a GENUINE person, mature, loving/affectionate, emotionally & financially stable, a strong communicator, fun to be with and has a good sense of humor. I find myself attracted mostly to women who are friendly, outgoing, smart, witty and can carry a conversation well. I don't care if she is not religious, because I'm not, but it would be nice if she followed some type of spiritual path because I think that's important. Not interested in anyone who is on the rebound from a recent break-up or who still has any "ex drama" going on. I prefer women without children or with children who are independent adults. I want someone who will ADD good and positive things to my life, not take away from it or make it worse. Good looks is always nice to have, but the wisdom of the years has taught me that more important are: personality, depth of character, integrity, presentation, manners, life values and, of course, chemistry.
My friends say I am a great catch with so much to offer, but I know what I want (and don't want) and will not settle for the wrong person. I am not into prolonged e-mailing. I prefer to talk on the phone after a few e-mails and meet promptly if we sense a connection because time is too precious to waste. So, if you can relate to the above and find yourself intrigued, send me a note....you have nothing to lose and possibly A LOT to gain! Thanks for reading and good luck! :-)