Nice guy looking to meet someone I can connect with. Most of my friends are married and have kids or just had a baby...So, my social life isn't as exciting or eventful as it once was. I can't tell you how many times men have told me I'm lucky to be single and have this "freedom" they seem to crave...But, I think they're happy and being cliche. I don't feel lucky not having a significant other. My last long-term relationship felt great(well, great until problems started to come up). But, I liked being in a relationship, and want to be in one again. Lucky to me is meeting the right person to spend my time with...
I like to do many things, but it also depends on who I am doing them with.
Chemistry is a must, which is not as easy as I thought it would be on internet dating sites. I guess I was naiive to think that the first person I wrote too would be the one I'd hit it off with, as I liked her photos and what she had written...It's not as easy as that:)
I don't know if the person I should be with is on this site or not, but I'm not a big believer in "things happen for a reason". Things that have happened in my life happened because I made them happen (possibly with a bit of luck as well).
I don't want to be alone as (I think?) everyone wants a partner for all aspects of life. Someone I can trust, be myself around faults and all, and still care about me. Make me laugh, put a smile on my face, intimacy. Basically, someone I want to have a future with. Of course, I want have the same affect on the person I'm with too...We should both feel that "it" factor. I want that "look-forward to seeing you" feeling when I leave our date or whatever we are doing together. I don't expect that feeling on a first date, but I've been on many and there are times when you know after one date that person is or isn't for you. Sometimes you're not sure, so you need to make a second to see if it was just nerves after the first meeting...In any case, I don't want to write a mini-novel of a profile, so if you'd like to know more about me, then I hope to hear from you.