I am 45 years old, divorced white male, non smoker, very light drinker with no kids working as a chef in the Middletown area. I have recently lost 130 lbs due to weight loss surgery so i am discovering a whole new life and looking for a special ladyfriend to share it with.
On the first date I like to keep it REAL casual, typically I will meet a lady at a Dunkin Donuts for coffe and conversation. that way if either does not want to pursue you just go your own way. no promises made at that point, right?