We are here for the same reason in some way. Weather to just meet a friend or to find the one you cant live with out. That could still be a friend or a lover we are looking for. All the words I put here will not mean any thang if you don't act on the reasons we are here for.
I listed Keep changing over time as I have found that its not what you are doing, But more of who you are doing it with...
It's hard to write a "physical" description of a "perfect" match, as it's more about character and personality. A perfect match or soul mate may be in a different "package" than what one may be imagining. It would be sad if a person missed out on their one soul mate because they had a preconception of what their mate MUST look like. Though it is nice to have some sort of physical attraction, physical looks will inevitably change (or fade) with time but character, personality and integrity tend to stay for a lifetime! Other things I look for in a person are: Openness, lots of spontaneity, and financially responsible ~you don't have to have money, just be responsible with the money you have~.