Thick thighs, pretty eyes, super affectionate w/ great chemistry, drive the ego mobile elsewhere, swoon over educated/ mechanical/ creative minds, want a gentleman, I've got zero drama, make me laugh, liar = fired, love pat while I make breakfast gets you teddy bear pancakes, your kids are cool, gym partner = yay, not a booty call/ butt d'jour/ FWB, meet quickly, road trip = let's go!
ENFJ / INFJ
If you're not under construction, you're dead. I'm alive and kicking. Life is a delicate gift, I learned that at a young age.
I am an artist that lives an interesting life (or, so I've been told). Born and raised in California, like totally; a Bay Area woman that loves to see the world. I came back home to California in March 2015.
I lived in Europe for five years, Japan for two (was there for Fukushima) and absorbed a lot of the languages; I wound up realizing the world is larger than many can fathom. We must be gentle with our thoughts, words, and actions; please.
Country music makes my ears bleed…really, Cash, Cline do not count.
I'm curvaceous in every sense of the word, I was always the short and round girl in the room, now I'm a little bit taller and have become this very womanly compact hourglass (which I llllllllove); I take care of myself and live healthy, clean food, the gym, walks by the water, I sweat, I love it, you should do the same, because it feels wonderful.
I am open to life and all of the incredible possibilities that comes with it. I truly believe that love and acceptance is all anyone needs to access their own turbo jet pack- always be selective.
I can't really be put into one category; I'm short and round, tough and gentle, shy and bold, a girlish tomboy. Animals love me, I karaoke Bohemian Rhapsody and nail it, I will play legos with kids.. like a kid. One thing that can be said is that I am a balanced woman, I got me some yin in my yang.
After all the cutesy stuff is said and done, I really want someone that I can be proud of, smile about, get butterflies at the thought of, get chills when being touched by him.. I am truly ready for that solid connection, but it's got to be the right man. It's the kind of thing that won't happen overnight, but it will be great when it does. My preference tends to lean towards white guys, and the only "drug" I'm cool with is a bit of pot.
*separated, open relationship, married = not for me
*Texting to get to know someone isn't for me. There's an exchange, sure, but if it's your preferred primary form of communication, I can't do it. Too many confusions, it's clear as mud. We can text, but talking and together time is best for me.
Dude, asking me to be a FWB is something I consider to be so rude, it actually hurts my feelings. I really want to hangout with someone I can be exactly me around, and build on that. Don't be rude, yo.
French Laundry tasting menu? Pinball? MOMA? Pool and darts are both things I want to be better at. How about auditioning for a band? I'll sing, just need the right shoes and I'm ready. I'm good with something basic and going from there, too. Getting super drunk isn't for me, there's no real way to tell if you were enjoying the person, or the libations; although, a smokey Chilean Malbec is a beautiful thing. Really, it's about eye contact. An awesome second or fifth date would be driving down to be in the audience of Price Is Right, or something just as fun - am also very content with cooking a meal together and staying in.