My name is Gayla. I'm a new me so I'm putting up a new revised profile. I'm a 45 y.o. slim, attractive Southern girl. I am very articulate and speak with a heavy Southern accent. Im laid back, open minded, liberal and non- judgemental. These atributes should in no way be interpreted as lazy, freaky, and open to EVERYTHING. I'm not high maintenance, set in my ways, or carry a lot of baggage. I dont like drama anymore than youIm not fanatical about anything. . I consider myself to be a pretty overall dynamic person. I consider being well rounded and centered a perpetual endevour for anyone; meaning me. LOL I've done a lot of self improvement in the three years since ive moved here from Georgia/Carolina. I'm also learning that the journey is just as much fun as the destination. I've had the good life and i've had it rough. I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for perfect. That being said, let me go into my one little rant. I cannot abide a pretentious person; a snob, goody two shoes, i have to be better than someone to be someone, stick up ur a*** type of guy. I have a sharp sarcastic wit that loves nothing better than to meet its match ; but that requires someone that can be silly and self-effacing and have an actual sense of humor.'Nuf said.
Things I like to do. Ummm. Exploring. Literally . up and down the coast. tidal pools. redwood parks. hiking anywhere.beaches. Motorcyclying. off-roading. rafting. camping. going to concerts.perusing used book stores. flea markets. yard sales. amusement parks. There is still a whole world of activities i have on my to do list,but those are the extras. Thats not everyday life. So what would be an ideal average evening for me (with you)? I like grilling, a good movie afer the sunsets where weve sat on the back porch around our little burning bowl or fire, burning one of course (yes, 4:20 friendly). You can have a beer or a glass of whatever. I dont imbibe anymore. Simple really.
Now, what do i want in a guy? Well, I've always been attracted to a masculine man . He cares about the hair coming out of his nose or ears but would think its strange to shave anything else. He may or may not be typically attractive but what he is , is confident because looking pretty doesn't matter to a man. He smells like Old Spice or Axe or maybe a cologne you're niece got you for Christmas , because shopping for scent is the most ludacris concept to him. You get the idea. Me Jane You Tarzan (with clean nails). Im not going to fight you to be the girl in the relationship. LOL If this sounds like you , hit me up.
Please understand that after a couple of initial texts; i would like to talk on the phone with like minded adults. I would really like if when you call , you can fully engage in a conversation. I wont talk to you if youre busy driving, cooking, or trying to multitask with me. My time and my opinions are valuable to me . Oh please no sexting. I wont. I have nothing to prove. I have a healthy sexual libido. "Nuff said.
I like.a man with a plan
P.S. Pick me up like a lady and drop me off like a gentleman.
P.S.S. Don't let my ability to write a good profile make me seem inaccessible. But. Also if it's too much information for you, ..then I'll probably be too much... just sayin'. LOL