Being a father to a handsome 20 year old gentle boy,my son is my greatest joy and accomplishment. Spending time with him is a priority. I am a loving father and I'm very proud of who he is becoming. I'm an encouraging and positive father and I invest my life in my Son to raise him to be a self sufficient, strong, speak his mind and independent Guy. My Son comes to me freely to talks about whatever is on his mind. We are very close and he knows I will always be there for him. If you have little or grown kids, I will be just as encouraging and positive with them.
RESPECT = QUALITY LONGEVITY:
I’m looking for a quality longevity relationship with a woman I adore. I live my life being real, honest and respectful and I’m looking for the same. When challenges come up in life and a relationship, I ask questions first to seek to understand. I’m am a very good listener and also open to what you have to say and let you share all your thoughts and will not cut you off. I am not a defense or stubborn guy and will always be open to any feedback you have about me and will think before I speak. If I agree with you, I will have no hesitation in telling you I agree. That includes anything about me that could be improved. If we are not on the same page on a subject I will always try to find common ground we both can live with.
I'm very different than most men when it comes to communication. Being real and honest with each other is a key in getting past issues or at least finding common ground. Every man has an ego but this man knows an ego can cause damage and needs to be managed and at times put aside for the longevity and health of our relationship. We don't have to agree and yet still be kind and respectful to each other. I'm at a place in my life where I want love and happiness WAY MORE than to be right. I'm a strong man and will say what I think but I don't yell and get mad. That only cause damage to us. When I make a blunder (I am a man, so it will happen) and after it's pointed out to me, I'm confident in myself to not take it too personal and apologize and try to make amends. Your opinion and thoughts are important to me and you will hear often from me “what do you think?”
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
LOVE AND ROMANCE:
I want a woman that is ready for a loyal and long lasting relationship. I AM romantic and love making my woman feel special. I believe what a man says is good but it's what he does to make her feel loved that is important. There is no better evening than a giggling romantic night after an active and fun day. Yes it's true men can giggle but not when their buddies are around and you are not supposed to tell. O-my gosh, I would never hear the end of it. I am a hands on massaging affectionate man and want a woman that enjoys being touched. We are not only lovers (And love often) but we are a supportive, respectful and encouraging team. We will build our future together and enjoy the fruits of our labor in our old age. O-yes one last thing, you think I'm the best looking guy on planet Earth...Well OK that one is optional, but you could humor me.
DATING:......ONLY drop your email if you are ready for a relationship!!!!!
I only want to talk to and spend time with someone that is over past relationships and is ready for her future relationship. I have no past relationship hangups and I'm years past ready to find that special lady and permanently leave the dating world. I'm ready to make that special lady a priority in my life and cherish the time we have together. I'm fully aware many guys say things like this to “get” women but this guy means it. Read my profile and you will see my sincerity in what I'm saying. I put a great deal of time and effort to speak from the heart with the hopes to find what I'm looking for.