"Sometimes In Winter", a melancholy song by Blood, Sweat & Tears for a melancholy season. It's not officially winter yet, but it's getting close, and so is Christmas and the new year! The holidays, and winters in the Midwest, can create challenges to forming relationships, but if you want something/someone badly enough, you'll both find a way to make things work...you just have to be more adventurous and resourceful!
Some women said I should move some things to the beginning of my profile, so they would have a better chance of being read, so here goes, with a couple things added as well. While I'd like to live with the right gal eventually, I don't want to get married again, and I'd consider a long distance relationship (up to an hour and a half) with the right gal, if she would be willing to relocate to St. Peters eventually. I also actively support the legalization of marijuana, although I doubt that'll ever happen in my lifetime in Missouri. I've also gone though a transformation of sorts over the last year and a half, losing my Liberal Democrat label and replacing it with Independent viewpoints and beliefs...thank you for opening my eyes Obama. I still support gay rights/marriage and continue to be pro-choice (except as a form of birth control), but our country needs to work hard at repairing race relations and preventing ILLEGAL immigration, and both are problems made worse by the Democrats. I'm not that fond of the Republicans either, but until we have a party that represents the interests of the middle class, they're the lesser of two evils in my opinion. Please don't take it personally if our viewpoints don't match, because its a personal choice for all of us.
Let me start by saying that I respond to every woman that sends me a message (meet me's and flirts don't count), and I expect the same treatment in return. If you don't respond to me, then that shows a lack of character on your part, since it only takes 15 seconds or so to say you're not interested, if that's the case. Also, please don't block me, instead of discussing things, just because some of my beliefs don't match yours...that's just plain intolerance. Let's make this a more courteous site than it is now.
So, the search for "Ms. Perfect For Me" goes on, trying to find that hidden gem of a woman, who's looking for a guy like me. While I thought I'd found "Ms. Perfect For Me" a few times in the past, things just didn't work out, and now I have a better vision of the woman I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I want a lady I don't have to explain things to...she gets me and I get her, just like it should be. I want a lady I can spoil with affection, sensuality and massages...and she would spoil me too, just like it should be. I want a lady who's down to earth, optimistic and easy to be with...and I'll be the same for her, just like it should be. Of course, I want a lady who has all the other things everyone else is looking for too...cute or pretty, height/weight proportionate, sexy, funny, smart, caring, has a little bit of a "bad girl" in her...you know, the one we'd all like to find, just like it should be. When I find her, or she finds me, we'll know it, and our love will become so deep we'll become Soul Mates...just like it should be!
I love music of all types (except opera, polkas, and rap), and go to as many concerts as I can. I like watching Cardinals games, especially when they're in the playoffs, live and on tv. I also like going to wineries, Fast Eddies, The Loading Dock, scenic drives, road trips, tailgating at Mizzou games, movies, The Funny Bone comedy club, nightclubs, etc. I'm kind, easy going, affectionate, love sarcastic banter, open minded, sensual, modern thinking, politically Independent, pragmatic, honest. I have a 16 year old son at home, but he's at an age where he doesn't want to spend much time with Dad, and he's pretty self sufficient most of the time.
I like to meet women after messaging a couple times, maybe some texting and definitely some talking on the phone. I'm sure we've all emailed, texted and talked on the phone with someone for days or weeks on end, only to feel no connection when you meet. Attraction is a weird and subjective thing, and you just can't tell if there's any chemistry or not until you meet someone in person. I weigh 225 pounds, and I'd like to lose about 25 pounds, so I'm work in progress, and I'll date a woman who's also a work in progress, but don't want to date someone who's larger than me.
Thanks for reading my profile, and if there's anything else you'd like to know about me, just ask.