Obviously, all the leaves AREN'T brown, but it's officially Autumn now, and I like that song...lol.
Let me start by saying that I respond to every woman that sends me a message (meet me's and flirts don't count), and I expect the same treatment in return. If you don't respond to me, then that shows a lack of character on your part, since it only takes 15 seconds or so to say you're not interested, if that's the case. Also, don't block me without any explanation, just because some of my beliefs don't match yours...that's just being intolerant. Let's make this a more curteous site than it is now!
So, the search for "Ms. Perfect For Me" goes on, but now has risen to an even higher level of difficulty than I ever imagined it would. I've met less women in the nine months I've been back on POF than any other time I was on here, and I don't feel I've changed that much.They say there's someone out there for everybody, but you have to be able to meet a fair amount of people in order to find them. While I thought I'd found "Ms. Perfect For Me" a few times in the past, things just didn't work out, and now I have a better vision of the woman I'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I want a lady I don't have to explain things to...she gets me and I get her, just like it should be. I want a lady I can spoil with affection, sensuality and massages...and she would spoil me too, just like it should be. I want a lady who's down to earth, optimistic and easy to be with...and I'll be the same for her, just like it should be. Of course, I want a lady who has all the other things everyone else is looking for too...cute or pretty, height/weight proportionate, sexy, funny, smart, caring, has a little bit of a "bad girl" in her...you know, the one we'd all like to find, just like it should be. When I find her, or she finds me, we'll know it, and our love will become so deep we'll become Soul Mates...just like it should be!
I love music of all types (except opera, polkas, and rap), and go to as many concerts as I can. I like watching Cardinals games, especially when they're in the playoffs, live and on tv. I also like going to wineries, Fast Eddies, The Loading Dock, scenic drives, road trips, tailgating at Mizzou games, movies, The Funny Bone comedy club, nightclubs, etc. I'm kind, easy going, affectionate, love sarcastic banter, open minded, sensual, modern thinking, middle-of-the-road politically, pragmatic, honest. I have a 16 year old son at home, but he's at an age where he doesn't want to spend much time with Dad, and he's pretty self sufficient most of the time. While I'd like to live with the right gal eventually, I don't want to get married again. I also actively support the legalization of marijuana, although I doubt that'll ever happen in my lifetime in Missouri.
I like to meet women after a couple emailing sessions, maybe some texting and definitely some talking on the phone. I'm sure we've all emailed, texted and talked on the phone with someone for days or weeks on end, only to feel no connection when you meet. Attraction is a weird and subjective thing and you just can't tell until you meet someone in person, if there's any chemistry or not. I weigh 225 pounds, and I'd like to lose about 25 pounds, so I'm work in progress, and I'll date a woman who's also a work in progress, but don't want to date someone who's larger than me.
Thanks for reading my profile, and if there's anything else you'd like to know about me, just ask.