FIRST MY PHOTOS ARE ON HEAR, I am a simple guy and laid back. I had put dating aside to build a career for the last 11 years. It was when I was 30 I knew I want more in life. Making a family is easy, but trying to build a good career with raising a family is difficult almost to impossible. Most people I know who have families there where problems, the biggest one was money, second was why are you working long hours and not spending time with the family. I noticed too that people either brought there home problems to work and took it out on everyone or brought work stress home and took it out on there family. I asked them than why did you marry them if you new they were trouble? No answer. Why did it take for you to have a child to realize that this person is bad news? Yet again no answer. Most people I have known have always ended up with same person as was in there last relationship, the same personality. The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over expecting different results. Basically there back with there ex, just with a different face. Since I took the commitment and built a career Many gifts popped in front of me. My self esteem grew, it's not boy I hope she excepts me, but what can she offer in this relationship, can I trust them? Yes I can stand on my own two feet. I don't have to worry anymore. The biggest gift is I am happy with myself.
What I am looking for is some one who isn't trying keeping up with the Jones, insane, and what I mean is someone doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. aka finding the same type of guy and thinking it's going to be different this time. Someone who is responsible,