I'm not looking for someone to take care of me and I'm not looking for someone to take care of. At 30 I made the choice to put everything aside to build a career. I want more. I now have recieved many gifts since I completed my goal. One my self asteem grew, more respect for my self. Even now I see the success all around me. I have nothing to prove. It's not boy I hope she excepts me, but what can she offer in this relationship? Can I trust her? Will we be happy together? Will I find that special someone?