I'm really just sort of looking. Been in a lot of relationships in the past and not sure if I want to go through the trouble of figuring out whether someone knows who they are or not. So I'm just looking to see if anyone appears interesting, blatantly straight-forward or someone that might break the ice (ha). If I contact you then probably, at least initially, I would consider you for something more (and I don't mean just by replying to a message you initiated).
MAKE SURE YOU READ THE NEXT PARAGRAPH... MAKE SURE YOU READ THE NEXT PARAGRAPH!!
And PLEASE, do not send me a message that just says "Hi" or "How are you?" or anything along those lines. In general, I'm always fine or doing good and plan on staying that way. It would be nice if you suggested why you felt like sending a message and then anything else you might like to say after that... BECAUSE IF THAT'S ALL YOU DO SEND, IN A MESSAGE, THEN IT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY THAT I WILL RESPOND BACK, sorry and thanks :-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Probably just grab a cup of coffee, lunch, or a couple drinks somewhere and see...