OK OK i get it...... IM not appealing to anyone on here.....LOL.
Update:.... ok I just have to add this... I swear everyone in this country has become sooo disconnected to the point where you can't have friendly conversation anymore or ask anything without someone taking offense.. people have no idea how to communicate anymore unless you are staring at your phone .. or a computer.... face to face conversation or phone conversation is a thing of the past... I was having lunch the other day at a restaurant ( alone as usual) and two women having lunch together were sitting at a table not talking to each other but texting on their phones the whole time..... pathetic.... this world is seriously getting dumbed down in a hurry... God help us all.
Im pretty sure everyone on here has lost their mind....
Im soo far outside the box... I can't even remember where I put it....during the summer time ... I am on the water... if Im not racing somewhere, I am taking time to spread the stoke by sharing my knowledge as a certified Stand UP Paddleboard instructor or taking more certification courses to make myself the best possible instructor I can be .. there is always room for more knowledge... I am also teaching myself acoustic guitar lol.... ( even though I have been a drummer / percussionist since childhood) .. music is a passion and a very important part of my life.... it keeps my heart beating and a pulse that defines me.
Just looking for something real for once..............not on here to play silly games. Would be nice to find someone that I can finally click with , just not sure if that person actually exists.. .. but it would be nice to make a friend ... I could really use that in my life. Ive seen a lot ... Ive experienced things that people can only imagine... Im pretty unique yet simple .. sure I would like to find a special someone but I'm not going to force anything... but as I said before.... loneliness sucks and even if I just made a new friend to go do silly things with or just simple conversations... that is what life is all about ... and I'm lacking currently in that department. who knows if you play your cards right... its always good knowing a stand up paddle board instructor with 8 boards lol... just sayn.
pFirst Date............hmmmm.... well i know what i wouldnt do on a first date and that would be... dinner and /or a movie ..or worst yet both in succession of each other... that would be a huge gamble dont you think? cmon weve all done it lol.... anyway ... i think a first meeting is best like coffee shop or park or for a quick drink... if things go well then you can always extend the meeting and make more of your traditional date...( i should write a book ...not..lol ) To me a first date depends on the likes and dislikes of you and the person that you are interested in ... and i havent met that person yet... duh!!! ha ha just kidding.