Time for an update: I am originally from Northern California. I spent the last 15 years in Las Vegas and recently returned. I have been back a month and a half. Things are complicated right now so I'm not really sure what I'm looking for. Let's just say: I'm keeping an open mind.
If you have young children, great. I love children. I even raised one all by myself. I worked with them for many years. But unless their mother is sane and mature, I cannot go there. The last time I dealt with baby mama drama (until recently) was like 23 years ago.
Also, if you have a child(ren) and they are " your life", "your world", "your sun, moon, earth and stars" or if they "will always come first". That's fantastic. But perhaps you might consider a hook up app rather than a dating site. Not to be harsh, but if you want a relationship, that has to come first. How do you expect to raise men who make good husbands and women who know their worth if you don't set an example? Show me a couple who always put the kids first and I will show you a FORMER couple.
Okay, I can't believe I need to add this, but here goes:
If you wear your pants any lower than your hips: not interested.
If you are flashing some gang sign: not interested
If you do drugs: not interested
I will Google you. I watch A LOT of Forensic Files and the like. So if you are a serial killer or some other sort of weirdo, you got to get up pretty early to fool me.
Feel free to message me if you'd like to know more.