Alright if your curious about the heading its pretty self explanatory! If you don't have a house, job, car, responsibilities , or independence then keep looking for that sucker fish cause its not here ! I have been a single dad for over 7 yrs by choice. I devoted everything to my kids home and career. Now the kids are grown I don't wanna be that grumpy old man in a big empty house I am a very hard worker and very independent and yes I do have a job a home , vehicles, responsibilities and independence If you want to know just ask . Not into putting my business out there or creating some fake profile about walking on a beach. If theres an attraction the rest usually follows .