Imagine finding someone whose company compliments your very being, a person that when you are hanging around with them everything feels as right, and as comfortable as wearing your favorite pair of perfectly worn shoes or old blue jeans. And yet paradoxically they fill your life with excitement and sensuality. A companion, a friend, an intimate partner to explore your fifty shades with. If you can still imagine this then there is hope and you haven’t succumbed to or been beaten by your journey thus far through life.
How does this site help in your search for that person? Does kissing a thousand frogs get us one step closer to kissing our soul mate? It’s like looking for a piece of hay in a needle stack. Having a partner can be fun; rewarding, fulfilling, challenging, and can stimulate the growth of our personal boundaries outside of our comfort zones. “All who wander are not lost” isn’t just a catchy phrase on a bumper sticker. How have you wandered? How have you wondered?
I am not looking for a hookup I am searching for a soul mate connection. I am not looking for the perfect woman just the perfect woman for me. Are you kind, inquisitive, a lifelong learner, someone who enjoys life’s little and not so little adventures? Is spirituality an important part of your life? Are you young at heart, childlike but not childish? Are you willing to share your baggage and help me unpack mine? Real men and women have stretch marks and scars. They have a story for each one and can chuckle or sigh at the memory of the experience and wisdom they learned in acquiring them. Let’s share stories and become friends.
I love this quote from the movie, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, “For what it's worth: it's never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There's no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same; there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you're proud of. If you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”