NOTICE... IF YOU ARE SEPARATED, DON'T CONTACT ME CUZ YOU ARE STILL MARRIED!!! IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, MOVE ON AND DON'T WASTE MINE OR YOUR TIME:)
I am fun, outgoing, sarcastic, humorous, and optimistic. I do not mind getting my hands dirty, love to be casual, but don't mind getting dolled up. I hate primping, if my hair looks bad, it goes up into a pony tail. I love to laugh, spend time with friends and family, go to new places, and try anything at least once. Maybe twice, if you are lucky!!! I am a mother of two, and they are my entire world. I am very blunt and tend to say what is on my mind, but I do know when it is the time or the place for it.
I have settled in my life before and found that I was not truly happy, and I will not do that again. I am not perfect, and I do not expect perfection in my friends or my significant other. Believe me, I have made many mistakes, some are regretted, but they have made me who I am today.
I want someone who is honest, faithful, sweet, considerate of my feelings, passionate, good sense of humor, romantic, and affectionate. I'm looking for someone who can walk beside me, not behind or in front of me. (Unless he has a nice butt in his jeans!) Someone who will pull me closer instead of pushing me away. I want someone who can communicate with me, not at me. I do not want someone who is boring, too uptight, or has an arrogant attitude. I want him to have a great self-esteem, but let's not go overboard! I can't stand dishonesty, abusive, controlling, ocd, or too clingy men, these are deal breakers for me.
I will not play games with a guy and expect the same from him. I want a relationship that is fun to have, not one that is a challenge!
I will not settle for less then I deserve because that only ends in pain and heartache for both involved. I am not looking for the one I can live with, but the one I can't live without! Please keep in mind, that a great relationship has to first be based off of friendship. I want that special someone to be my very best friend. In other words, the relationship i want is not one that can happen over night.
A friend of mine says, if someone is right for you, then no matter what you do, he/she will still think the sun shines outta your ass!!
HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN: Wine her. Dine her. Call her. Hold her. Surprise her. Compliment her. Smile at her. Listen to her. Laugh with her. Cry with her. Romance her. Encourage her. Believe in her. Cuddle with her. Give her jewrlry. Buy her flowers. Hold her hand. Write love letters to her. Go to the end of the earth and back again for her. HOW TO TREAT A MAN: show up naked. Bring chicken wings and beer!!!
The confession of a man lol:) So…How did I get here...She told me we couldn't afford beer anymore and I'd have to quit... Then I caught her spending $65 on makeup...And I asked, How come I had to give up stuff and she didn't ....She said she needed the makeup to look pretty for me... I told her that was what the beer was for.... I don't think she's coming back.