I’m the girl that’s often the happiest bouncy thing in the room. I’m the one who’s dancing to the song that people groan at. I want you to dance with me. Even if you dance badly. Even really badly. I just want you to play with me. I have a sometimes serious life and so I balance that with play and adventure and travel!
I’m nice to waiters and car attendants and animals. People like me.
I'm a femme girl and I like butches.
I read. A lot. Fiction, non-fiction, self-help, fantasy, facilitation manuals, education theories, and TED talks. I’m all about TED talks lately. Ok that’s not reading, but it lights my brain on fire and inspires me to learn more things. (And I’m not a zombie, no matter how much my brain gets lit on fire). I read and learn and talk to people and swim and dance and do magic.
I love being in silence in the out side places. I find the greatest solace and most beauty under the trees. I’m deeply happy in forests or in water.
I love kids. All of them. Sometimes kids are so distracting that I play with them at coffeeshops. Other people’s kids that I don’t even know. Yeah, it’s dorky, but they’re beautiful. (And I have one of my awn, he’s a teen and that’s awesome. I don’t really want more, but I’d be happy to support parenting other people’s kids.)
Oh and I volunteer in my community. I’m a “make things go” kinda girl. I can organize almost any project and facilitate nearly any conversation or group. It’s almost like having super powers. Almost. Except when it’s not. I'm committed to community and to supporting loving relationships.
And I’m funny. Sometimes wildly so. (Sometimes not.)
Something connecting - conversation, dinner. Something that you'd really enjoy sharing with me. Maybe something fun and goofy - jumping on trampolines, or going dancing in a room full of bubbles. Something that really lights you up so that I get to see the very best side of you.
Or maybe coffee. Except that's boring. I love imaginative first dates!