Life is an adventure.... you should treat it as such. Each milestone, hurdle and person that comes into and goes out of our life helps to make us who we are. Ever changing; forever learning and holding onto hope.
Let me start off by saying I'm not here to serial date, but I'm also not in a rush to start a relationship. I am honest and blunt, which is both a blessing and a curse. I expect honesty in return - blunt is good too =o). I always try to find the humor in things, whether they be good or bad; laughter is, after all the best medicine. My photos are all current, my default being the most current - I am hoping yours are too. I have a very strong/bold personality, an odd, sarcastic and sometimes dark sense of humor, a flirty disposition and at times a male mentality..... I'm not into games. I'm not a traditional girl, not old fashioned and definitely not a Barbie Doll. Reel in and cast in a different direction if you're looking for plastic. I am who I am from the very first message - people either love me or hate me, not much gray area there and I'm good with that. I work a lot and spend as much time as I can with my family and friends, which doesn't leave me a lot of time...... but, I'm into meeting and making new friends, open to whatever life throws my way and willing to make time for those that deserve it.
Just a little 'side note' here.... I originally joined the site a few years ago, but never actually used it. When I decided to give it a try, I noticed that my age is incorrect and POF would not let me update it - instead, they told me I would have to make a whole new profile. That, to me, sounded like a lot of extra work lol. So, FYI all, I'm actually 45 - and damn proud of it.
Something different..... While I'm a coffee-holic and drinks are nice, the atmosphere tends to get 'pressured' and you can't really get to know anyone. How about something original, where both persons real personalities come out?