Honestly, it really depends on the person. I am pretty flexible about where to go and what to see. I find that movies don't give people much time to talk so I try to avoid those for first dates. I like to go for walks and I enjoy playing sports outside like frisbee or of course playing the guitar and talking about anything that comes to mind. And to honestly see if there is a resonance between both of us:)
Also, please don't be an online attention seeker. If I approach you, it doesn't mean I am head over heels to get in your pants! Like all things else, a relationship is based on meeting the person and seeing where things go.--its a natural process. You should have fun in wanting to meet someone new and seeing what they are about. I understand that most females receive so many messages every day, but please don't let that make your head big, because there is a lot more to attraction than someone approaching you in an online dating site. I hope the smart girls that read this can see that. I want things to be somewhat natural and if you meet someone you like, well then you take it from there. And all the other girls that get your attention fix..., well have fun because it is merely all just an illusion you know know it is as well. If you go out somewhere, it is a totally different synergy than something like this. So please girls, steady on.. Just enjoy meeting new people and take it from there! So please with cherries on top, try to ditch the expectations and assumptions, it makes you unattractive..